So I was talking to a friend who told me that he thinks the girl he is dating is a 6/10. My reaction was WTF!

Personally I would say she is a 6/10 because she is not my type, but he is dating her!! Apparently he and my friends agree that the girl I am dating is 7/10. Fair enough, their opinion, but to me she is perfect 10/10. I look at her and I think she is stunning.

So I started asking around and a surprising amount of guys are going after girls who they don’t see as that attractive. I mean if you are looking for a one night stand in a club I understand, you are just looking for someone to fuck. But if you are asking someone out to get to know them and hopefully build something, why go after someone you don’t think is stunning. If you don’t like them that much eventually that will destroy the relationship

So are people here going for unattractive people just to get a more likely yes? I mean I talked to a lot of people about the girl I’m dating. Most say she is good but just a bit above average nothing special. Some even say unattractive. But since the moment I saw her I thought she was the most beautiful girl I’d ever seen. Honestly capable of being a model. My last girlfriend I didn’t find that attractive and you know what...I got bored of her and lost what I felt. I only liked her in the first place as a friend, there was no spark. A big part of that ‘spark’ comes from attraction to one another.

Sorry this ended up being much longer than intended, but this is all to say if a girl is not beautiful to you then why would you bother with an approach