How to turn her on in advance with what you say?

Stigmata_X · 2020-02-16T04:23:58+00:00

Walk up and whisper in her ear "I'd like to spend a few hours eating your ass"

sunshine_dept · 2020-02-16T05:21:45+00:00

Always leave things to the imagination. Insinuate things and let her fill in the blanks.

Be as detailed as possible about what you want to do and how feels. Locations, sensations, texture, temperature, breathing, tempo, where your mouth is, what your lips feel like, what her skin feels like, what noises you’re making, where your hands are, what you’re feeling. Stay away from being vulgar, at least initially. Be detailed about where you’re headed, but give her room to imagine where she wants it to go.

Take it slow!!! I can’t stress this enough!!! Always cut it short and leave her wanting more. The anticipation is what matters, not the destination.

beaumande · 2020-02-16T03:58:41+00:00

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2020-02-16T03:54:37+00:00

Texting a girl rn, I need this.

cunthead11113030 · 2020-02-16T05:16:21+00:00

talk about what you would do to make her feel good and tell her why what she's wearing looks good on her

PepeLePunk · 2020-02-16T14:10:02+00:00

Personally, in a public setting I keep it mostly PG-ish and most importantly private. You don't want to embarrass her in company.

If you have a private moment, or can whisper to her, I just say something simple to get her warmed up like, "The way you move is making me very hot". Don't compliment how she looks, beautiful women have heard it a million times (boring) but you can compliment something she does ("you're making me jealous of that straw...") or has done ("You know those shoes are giving me dirty thoughts about you...?")

The real action is done in private. Personally, I'm a huge fan of phone sex. I call up a girl I'm interested in, evenings are best but I've had results in the morning too, and slowly start turning the conversation sexual. Keep in mind your tone of voice!

After a bit of chit-chat and flirting, slowly move it sexual and see how she responds, "I've been thinking hot thoughts about you....what are you wearing? Underneath that? I want to caress your shoulders and nibble on your earlobes...mmmm, I can feel my hand running down your back....what color panties are you wearing?" Describe physical sensations, how it feels, maybe moan a little.

I find women are incrediblyresponsive to phone sex before you've actually had sex. She's alone and in a safe environment, has her hands to herself, and she can just play in a sexy imaginative way. The sound of a male voice close in her ear is incredibly intimate. Women will often get themselves off on the phone with you, you'll learn what her kink is, and it's incredibly hot doing that with just your voice.

If she’ll have phone sex with you, she’ll have in-person sex with you.

Ket_om · 2020-02-16T18:37:00+00:00

Body language is more often than not your way of getting her in the mood. Words generally come after the mood is already established. Appropriate eye contact, cheeky smiles, closeness and a cool demeanor will get you far. I've been told by many that my eye contact is intense and my co-workers flirt and joke about them not being able to stare me in the eye because they have boyfriends (obviously a flirty joke). This is just eye contact I dont do a lot else with them because I'm not that interested. Consider watching some films chicks like with badass alpha guys and learn there types of behaviors and adapt to your own style. And from there go with the flow. Something I forgot to mention was pace. Take it slow, it can be nerve racking getting into bed with someone you haven't slept with so keeping a slow and relaxed pace is good. The more intense the desire to fuck each others brains out the better itll be when you finally get it. That's why literally every guide on any sexual act ever tells you to be slow because the build up is a major part of it. This is all in person stuff too, if you're looking for text game this ain't it.

tretchman · 2020-02-18T05:16:07+00:00

I'm a firm believer in that there needs to be a baseline level of attraction before you can turn her on w/ your words. SHe doesn't necessarily need to think your god's gift to women but to turn her on w/ words she usually has to think you're at least decently attractive beforehand. I guess maybe compliments, but most girls hear that all the time... which is why I say she needs to be at least somewhat attracted to you

beaumande · 2020-02-16T12:30:16+00:00

I said to a black girl once that I wanted to stuff my face in her big black ass, ofcourse this wasnt out of the blue and we had been dancing and chatting and this were heating up. She liked it.

Icy-Resolution-4775 · 2022-10-03T20:00:24+00:00

Great advice

Title	How to turn her on in advance with what you say?
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Date	February 16, 2020 3:44 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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