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[–]SingularityOne198 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Delete the number and move on. Confusing, sure, but go on out and approach other women... and if she texts you back, cool.
Don’t catch oneitis if you aren’t dating.
Develop yourself and go to the gym, work on projects, do something fun you enjoy.
[–]jr2253[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Already doing that. But damn I want to hit again 😫 I wonder if I should even try to still hang with her tomorrow
[–]SingularityOne198 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How long has the silence been between her last text and now?
[–]devbev 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you have definite plans, just follow through on them and don't worry about her not texting back. Sure, it could be a test. Act like it.
What are you supposed to do when you think you're being tested? Prove you're not falling victim to the test, basically. Stand strong, and avoid showing neediness.
That said. If/when you find out she's flaking on you...
(Ex. no-show, not replying to your call/text at the time-of the plans - whenever the critical point falls where you find out if she's a flake)
Drop her - she's indicated that she doesn't respect your time.
[–]TheHalfMonty 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its not a shit test.
[–]zacfuller_ 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she playing games. seems like she just wants to fuck and act clingy sometimes. which is fine... if thats what she wants, she just needs to be clear w u abt it
[–]KaktusJackson 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When did she stop? I am not a fan of just ghosting back, this so called „game“ is wack. Just text her something funny, non-needy and ask when you should join her tomorrow.
[–]anteriorcar 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sounds like she's just playing games
[–]Lord_Augastus 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you could just be her lifeboat, or second choice when primary isnt working. She is clearly an attention craver, but get enough to cast wide when she wants to. You arent providing anything other than casual friendliness so clearly she will chase that that gives her a romantic oen as well. If you want them to stick around have more to go on rather than sex and good time. WOmen want commitments to date, not with everyone, and not always. But if you want to date then you have to give something more than friendliness. You are an easy bang, you hanging out is clearly pushing for something more but without the reciprocation. You could just be her fuckboi, or backup plan, or either. Its cool to be almost like fwb, but you seem like you want something more or you arent sure yet.
[–]excentrik-art 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She was horny, she wanted sex. Now she is not horny. You can make her horny. Learn the skill
[–]-nicks 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope, she just uses you when she needs something (last time it was sex). If she doesn't need anything or gets it from someone else, you're dead to her.
I also think you should move on instead of being her toy.
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