So last night was pretty weird. This girl I've known for about a year invites me over around midnight, and I get super excited thinking there could only be one reason for it. I get over there, she seems happy to see me, and we sit down, drink, and watch Netflix for a bit.

Then we go and sit outside so she can smoke a cigarette. That's when she tells me that her boyfriend cheated on her three times, and that she JUST found out that day. He told her in person, while they were showering together. I offered little sympathy, as past experience suggests that would get me nowhere. So I suggested we go back inside, hoping I could take her mind off it.

The rest of the night was different after that conversation. Rather than showing IOIs or just generally flirting, she was completely distant, absorbed in her phone or otherwise quiet. At this point, my libido had left the building. I just kept thinking "did she just call me over to bitch about her boyfriend?"

I was not about to be some wall for her to vent to. I wanted to fuck her, but I just didn't see it happening. So I told her she seemed distant to me, and that it would be best for me to go. Then I left.

As a 21-year-old who still hasn't gotten laid, it was really hard leaving last night, but I think I did the right thing. What does TRP think? Could I have handled the situation differently?