Do you ever lose the social skills that you've gained?

throwaway1236373 · 2020-05-22T02:52:50+00:00

I’d say I have since quarantine but my theory is it’s similar to muscle memory and when you start being more social again it’ll just click and you’ll become your better self quite quickly

Deeppua · 2020-05-22T03:44:44+00:00

Definitely. I live in NZ and everything is back to normal now. However, when I went out a couple of days ago I felt crippled to approach girls and have conversations. I believe social skills are an ongoing learning

hunterpua · 2020-05-22T08:38:47+00:00

Yes. But if you know exactly what you did to get them in the first place then you'll get them back faster than it took to develop them the first time.

bambam1911 · 2020-05-22T08:56:59+00:00

yes just like you loose your muscles overtime if you dont use them

SveXteZ · 2020-05-22T10:15:51+00:00

Is this a realistic concern?

Yes.

btw: How are you training your social skills?

3iiis · 2020-05-22T14:40:44+00:00

Forsure.

One summer as a kid, i stayed in the house all day playing video games. school year came around i was shy introverted kid.

BurnablesOnMondays · 2020-05-22T14:25:20+00:00

Yes. I dated a girl for three years and really wasn't all that social outside of work and a couple of my hobby buddies. When we broke up and I got back into dating, it took 8+ months of seeing one date per week to get my social skills back, and I'm still trying to push through some hangups about making a move when on a date.

Wander1900 · 2020-05-22T16:44:59+00:00

I hope not

dickstellar · 2020-05-22T16:45:02+00:00

If I stay inside for a few days I get a bit rusty, comes back within a day or 2. Haven’t done anything long term though

yellow_lava0202 · 2020-05-22T17:55:28+00:00

Guys! how does a person improve social skills? Please dont say practical experience because we are all on lockdown right now, i just wanna improve my skills in this lockdown period if possible.

drippin_fast_n_slow · 2020-05-22T05:59:10+00:00

Brb crying

Title	Do you ever lose the social skills that you've gained?
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Date	May 22, 2020 2:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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