should i invest in a dating coach?

2020-09-14T03:53:18+00:00

nope they are frauds

leon_Bogod · 2020-09-14T02:01:30+00:00

SnapSocialGuru · 2020-09-14T02:09:14+00:00

Investing in a coach is a great idea but id say you should build up your base and foundations a lot more before you pull the trigger.

All they’re going to do in bootcamp is try to force concepts into your head without taking the time to understand you or your thought patterns.

Not sure how long you’ve been studying seduction but give it 1-3 years before you hire a coach.

kettlebell_workout · 2020-09-14T02:43:04+00:00

If you are a beginner coach is a waste of money.

It is like asking a Kasparov to teach you chess when you don't even know the moves.

He will waste his time to teach you something which you can teach yourself.

Coaches have a great master-level knowledge. To understand that knowledge you need to have some basics already.

Also if you buy something make sure you are buying his time and not the products. Cause, only this way you can actually question him.

pua_max · 2020-09-14T04:46:56+00:00

At the beginner level, online forums give you good bang for your buck. Girlschase (google them) got me started way back a few years ago. Once you can get dates with something approaching consistency, getting a coach becomes worth it to really up your output.

d0lltee · 2020-09-14T04:54:41+00:00

just talk to a family therapist. your insurance might cover it. my therapist has great dating advice :) lol

7Saturn7Saturn7 · 2020-09-14T05:17:43+00:00

From what I've heard and seen of Todd he's good but his other coaches are crap and that's who you'll get.

I don't know what online bootcamp is but I don't like live bootcamps. First I think game really should be a solo journey and that a good portion of success comes from the impetus to approach being generated independently. Also I'm suspicious that there's nothing stopping the coaches from taking a few hundred out of the thousands you pay to hire a planted escort. Too many guys go back to their socks after scoring at a bootcamp for me to ignore the possibility.

Terrible_Caterpillar · 2020-09-14T10:39:28+00:00

As a woman, id say no. I personally feel like a lot of ‘dating coaches’ make ‘picking up women’ seem like some kind of game and in amongst it all women sometimes stop being treated as people and start being treated as trophies. You can work on your social skills without investing in a dating coach!

excentrik-art · 2020-09-14T12:08:15+00:00

Sure, but someone small, who will give you one on one sessions. Not those big ones.

quinnmcd · 2020-09-14T14:50:12+00:00

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Title	should i invest in a dating coach?
Author	Emergency_Front1907
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Comments	12
Date	September 14, 2020 1:38 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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