A question about muscles

tripmepls · 2020-09-21T22:25:16+00:00

Muscles don’t mean shit. I get laid way more now as a slim guy than when I was jacked. I have a lot more time to do way cooler shit and that helps me a lot.
I still diet and do yoga but no weights. Just don’t be a fatass and take care of your body and you’ll be alright

causeNo · 2020-09-21T22:59:49+00:00

Compared the time and effort you put in, with the nutrition and sleep and training and all, muscles have the worst return on investment of all the things you can optimize.

You should do that only for yourself. Honestly, when I was trained a lot better, the only comments I got were from men. It can help your discipline and your sense of accomplishment and that can help. But as a bargaining chip in seduction, it's a really bad investment.

EDIT

I should probably clarify: Looking like you move now and then can definitely help. It it's just law of diminishing returns. Going from just completely fat to a little overweight: Huuuuuge difference. From little overweight to normal, healthy weight: definitely still noticable. Healthy weight to some definition: already hard to notice, more like bonus attraction when you actually land in bed. Really bulked: Takes an incredible amount of work and time, rarely gets you any girls by itself, can get you an easier opening now and then. There are certain women who totally go off on that, but in my personal experience they are kinda toxic. At least those I met.

Lostb231 · 2020-09-21T21:42:16+00:00

No not at all. Please do not worry about this ever again

Visualize_ · 2020-09-21T21:47:48+00:00

Maybe go to the doctor/try physical therapy because there's tons of cases where people recover from accidents and can continue working out. The body is pretty resilient that I would be surprised if you really couldn't ever work out again.

But to answer your actually question, I mean yeah muscles are kinda important and generally makes things easier but it isn't ever a requirement. Obese people get married, and some fat people even have got girlfriends because their personality is pretty good. Some girls like dad bods instead of an athletic frame, so its not like you are SOL.

You have bigger issues than just your body type right now, it sounds like you need to instill some self confidence in yourself and realize you have value with who you are right now

Thund77 · 2020-09-21T23:50:57+00:00

You all really had constructive yet receptive answers. This is my second post here and Im glad to find out this is place where bunch of people helping each other and there are no trolls.

Im saying that because talking about something personal is not always comfortable, even on internet behind nickname

Dodechaedron · 2020-09-22T07:15:03+00:00

Can you swim?

thoroughlyimpressed · 2020-09-24T16:16:06+00:00

Nah man you're fine. Muscles will do more for your own self confidence then they will for outside attraction. Focus on yourself and building confidence on whatever way you can and you're good.

Title	A question about muscles
Author	Thund77
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	September 21, 2020 9:35 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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