Most of us are stuck in two extremes where there is disagreement. You have the pickup artists who swear looks do not matter and that you can get girls while being a 200 lb overweight slob with no style. Then you have incels who say that you must have a certain distance between your eyes or you are screwed to suck with women.

The problem here is that both schools of thought are wrong.

If you pretend that women do not have biases and are shallow, you are naive. You are living in Lalaland and are an emotionally soft guy that denies the reality of life. Life can be downright shitty, women can be cruel, and the game can punish you and push you to the extreme. If you deny this, you will be living a lie to yourself and people will consider you out of touch.

On the other hand, if you accept the truth but let it ruin you, you're a fucking pussy. Incels, despite all of that deep dark talk, are really a bunch of wimps who are emotionally soft and use bitterness and hatred to cover up their desire for women who they feel will never want them. Sure, they might recognize reality better than a pickup artist but they are still overwhelmed by it, using bitterness and hatred to cope.

Strong men on the other hand accept reality for what it is and live a fulfilling life.

For more on the post, please see link below:

https://millennialbachelor.com/2020/10/06/strong-men-accept-harsh-truths-and-still-shine/