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[–]aluminiumaorta 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Love this. Men, we must learn the craft. Looks only unlocks the door, it takes knowledge to walk through it....
[–]_Floydian 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I always wondered why I kept walking through closed doors. I get it now.
[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Honestly looks are a crutch. You probably need to grow a pair. A good looking confident Alpha type of male will scare off most women. They don’t like that even if they are attracted. A shy good looking guy that HAS boundaries is perfect for women his value is high but also his attainable
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[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Besides the fact a guy like that looks like he gets a lot of women, I got my dick in my hand son women can’t use pussy to get me on a leash. It’s crazy man the more attractive you become the more women peek and glance at you from a distance but once you approach they don’t know whay to do haha no matter keep approaching
[–]soowoo45 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The last sentence resinates like resin to me 😢Truer words have never been said until now😣 its like when a guy gets approached by a girl... THEY FREEZE UP!!😂 edit:
[–]quarantina_ 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think the first rule of dating is to scratch off the word "Alpha male" from your dictionary. It loosely translates to "stone age-no brain man" to women with standards. So you're probably not scaring them off, they probably aren't interested in meat-heads.
Women tend to prefer men who are genuinely nice (for dating), but not to the point where it makes them a spineless fool.
A mix of niceness with dignity, with a dash of looks and self-confidence is what most women I know are looking for.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can go suck a dick
[–]quarantina_ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No
[–]bonvoysal 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
hmmm...all i know is that my friend...he is not even model looking but definitely better looking than average; Rob Lowe like, but not as refined? Women always and i mean always turn to check him out and he acts like an ass too! Yet, women throw themselves at him. Now he is flirtatious, maybe charming when he likes a woman, but if you're being told you're like a model, and you still feel unwanted, then there are other issues going on....just my unfounded opinion of course! :D
thing that comes to mind...if women are dumping you, it could also be that they feel they are unworthy of your looks. I talked to one of these girls taht liked this rob lowe like guy and she was like, honestly i would date him, buti can't compete with all the women so i'm happy if i can just get laid by him. WTF? So who knows...maybe you need to be more direct/open when you really like a girl and let her know, hey, i really like you, no other woman can't compete with you, etc.
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[–]bonvoysal 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
plenty of fatties happy with me! Unserved population is where is at, my man! :D
[–]Morose123 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you find it 'extremely frustrating to date' and you're actually good looking (one opinion means little) then you are not particularly intelligent. Dating is extremely easy for good looking people as long as they have a modicum of social skills.
[–]Portgas 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao. People tell me I'm quite good-looking all the time, and that my social skills are great (funny, charming, interesting, whatever), and I still find it hard to get past the first date with most people. It's very hard to find anyone good enough to date, and my life is a bit too different from most people's for them to find me compatible as well. I've rejected a lot of good-looking girls just because I didn't feel it, and they are supposed to play the dating game on easy mode. Dating is frustrating for everyone. Hooking up maybe is easy, and getting first dates is easy, but the rest? Yeah, not how it works.
[–]fvckCrosshairs 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
can relate. most of my life people always assume I have women piled up for me/getting tons of pussy, not true though and not really sure why they think that, in reality its nothing crazy and pretty regular and nothing like they think of me.
[–]exuberancemethod 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel that brother
[–]El0vution 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need to integrate your shadow buddy. Many guys would die to have the looks you have. Maximize it!
[–]ihavenolayfu 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same. I'm a female. That's the reason why i stopped making myself look pretty because what really matters is how you get along with people. Some guys find me attractive and cute but i i have this energy that makes me less interesting to them and unavailable. Not just in dating, but also in looking for new friends. I forgot how to socialize now. My social skills sucks!
[–]Victory4Life 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’m 6’2”, have an okay physique, chiseled face, dark hair and it’s hard too for me to get a date with a quality woman I’m genuinely attracted to. I can get fat, unattractive women that easily want to date me at the drop of a hat but can’t often get the women who have a pretty face and decent physique. And I’ve had women co-workers tell me they don’t see what the problem is based on my looks. So yeah looks matter little when it comes to women for sure.
[–]mraees93 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The younger women care more for looks. As they get older than 23-24 they put other factors of smv first and realize that looks aren't all that in a man.
I'm 6ft2, dark hair with chiseled face as well. It's just that you have to try harder with the hot women. And sometimes they don't want the guy to be better looking than them.
[–]Victory4Life 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have you had success with hot women? I’m curious because, not to sound vain, but I’ve noticed women checking me out sometimes or brushing back their hair and smile when I catch their gaze. The minute I try to do something about it and approach and try to start conversation, I tend to blow it. Either I’m too corny with “I had to come over and say hi” or start asking questions about her job and become too nice. One time I tried to break the nice guy pattern and be “seductive” while talking and rub my fingers against her exposed shoulders, playfully and slyly, and a friend said “don’t you do that!”. So either they lose interest because I’m too jokey and nice with boring questions or they get turned off because I try to douche it up a little. Any success on how to approach a woman and be successful without looking like a dork or creep? It’s maddening, especially since I feel I have some potential to get at least some decent woman to want to hang out with me beyond a cold approach.
[–]ernst_starvo_blofeld 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Getting compliments and getting women are two different things. I got plenty of compliments in the past and there are no takers :lol:. Someone can be an excellent cook, making delicious healthy food, but if they can't run a restaurant, they will be broke. McDonalds sells garbage and thrives.
[–]ultralightskinmma 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro I’m in the same boat with you, I’m 6’4” 200lbs got abs, i didn’t look like how I look right now; till right after HS.. Which is when I started to hit my stride(job, living & working with dad) I was in my head too much thinking these women cared about my past self as much as I thought I did. Once you realize everyone is kicking there ass about there past self you’ll stop giving yourself a hard time bro. It take a while but it’s a healing process like any other. Just be smart with your Johnson when your confidence shifts Ight lol
[–]Low_Anxiety_9105 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hmm...understandable
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