I just want to share my field report since my divorce 2 months ago (approx). I went no contact with my wife since then. I'm going back into the game.

About me: 32, good job, tall and average/good looking, I live in South Florida. Miami is a very difficult place to game.

  • Texted a chick that I met through a friend of mine. She was really into me when I met her. She broke up with her boyfriend and I texted her. We went on a date. The date was garbage. It was super awkward and she was super boring. The girl was 22 and was not asking me questions etc. Honestly, I didn't like her and I was rusty as hell. I did not go for the kiss close and I deleted her number after. Bad bad date. At least she paid her half. Lmao. I felt completely out of my element.

  • My first approach ever. I saw this chick in the street with a friend and she looked at me and smile. I approached her and mentioned that she was beautiful and I would like to get to know her. She gave me her phone number. I texted her and she asked me for my Instagram. I don't have Instagram. Anyway, I tried to arrange a date and she never got back to me (she was very washy, washy). Deleted her number.

  • First time getting into online dating. I used Bumble and talked to a cute chick (she was 25) and straight-up asked her for her number. She tells me she is in the middle of a bad marriage and she is not looking for a hook-up or a relationship. Anyway, I'm new to this and I asked her when she's free. The same night, I go pick her up and we go for a drink. She tells me that her husband beats her and that she goes on date every day etc. This should be a red flag immediately. I spent hours with her and I go for the kiss close and she rejects me. I drove her home. Complete waste of time. She was just looking for a free drink and to go out of the house. Deleted her number.

  • I go to a bar and see this good-looking woman and her 2 friends. I approached them and we talk. In the end, I asked her if she wants a ride home (she's 35). She is hesitant but I drive her home. In the car, we talk etc. Anyway, I arrive at her place and I asked her for her phone number. She gave it to me but mention that "you know I'm 35 right". Anyway, I text her 2 days later and we schedule a date. The date goes well, we hit 2 bars and I kiss close in her car and we go to my place. I escalated super well. She does not want to have sex. She is super uncomfortable at my place etc. Super weird. Long story short, I feel like she was giving me a job interview, etc. Weird. I text her some days later and she said "I think you're great, but I think we are better as friends". I responded: "No thank you". Deleted her number.

  • I go to the same bar and I see these 2 chicks. I go talk to them and they are super receptive. One of them gave me her phone number. I tried to set up a date twice but she mentioned that she is super busy. Deleted her number.

Thank you for reading,