Need advice on escalating?

NoRefrigerator4969 · 2024-03-26T02:23:50+00:00

There are probably a ton of articles out there but it’s all about slow escalation until you decide to make out with her.

Some examples could be as simple as:

omg, you have tiny little elf hands, and then measure them to yours
palm reading (make it up, be funny, who cares)
just a friendly bump while walking side by side (saying something like, “wtf. Get out of my way…” obviously tongue in cheek.
shit even something as goofy as you have something on your shirt and then raise your finger across her face and call her gullible.

So many ways to start escalating to see if there’s chemistry.

CharmingRejector · 2024-03-26T02:56:55+00:00

You don't say stuff to escalate. You move closer. And kiss her.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-03-26T02:12:59+00:00

Generally you want to start getting closer to her. Start touching her more. and when the time is right go for the kiss. And then ask "What are you doing after this?" And then say "Wanna go home and watch a movie?"

Scooternator · 2024-03-26T01:04:39+00:00

If it's a bar just ask if she wants to leave with you. It's a little more awkward if it's a coffee date or something but if your primary goal is to hook up you shouldn't be looking for coffee dates anyway.

Training_Way6391 · 2024-03-26T00:45:25+00:00

I’m going home to fuck myself, you’re welcome to join me 😂 /s

MrPapasfritas · 2024-03-26T03:46:18+00:00

Ask her if she wants to checkout a cool thing back at your apartment or to meet your pet. Otherwise just ask her on a second date at your place or hers where you will be cooking something.

videogames_ · 2024-03-26T03:54:50+00:00

Flirt harder, tease her more, and ask her questions to qualify to you. I find that when women meet up your chances are better because she has so many other choices from online dating. I like going for the kiss when I'm on the way to grab another beer at the bar. After a few rounds then I invite her up. That's why you try to go to a bar only 5 or less minutes walking from your place.

Refuse2Lose76 · 2024-03-26T01:14:47+00:00

Escalation only works when they’re into you and insanely attracted to you. No guy has the power to talk a woman into doing anything or going anywhere with him. Understand that when a guy ends up in bed with a woman it was her decision to fuck you right when she met you.

Title	Need advice on escalating?
Author	Ornery_Sky9837
Upvotes	12
Comments	28
Date	March 26, 2024 12:38 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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