My friends and family are all encouraging me to date. I want to date but find my depression has made me anxious that I won't be confident and be able to carry a conversation on a date. I was never like this before. My divorce has killed my personality, self esteem and confidence. I have to think there are some women in the same boat after divorce. I get a lot of matches on OLD sites with attractive women and after the conversation leads to setting up a date I bail. Has anyone else experienced this and how did you get passed this and have the balls to go on dates? I'm sick of sitting around every weekend and need to get out there. It's seems like other guys are having way more success than me on this dating after divorce deal.