Any stories of reconciliation after physical separation?

Reflog1791 · 2024-03-28T06:25:27+00:00

If you get buff, get a haircut, get new clothes, put number one first, not he so needy and available and placate your spouse. Maybe readily accept your new single life and let your wife wonder what her buffer more mysterious more interesting husband is up to… maybe you’ll have a chance.

The spoiler is once you get buff and take care of your appearance, your whole attitude will change and you won’t want to get back together with naggy complaining wife.

But if you keep doing the houseboy begging pleading being a big pussy routine she is gone for sure and you will be miserable. Take the red pill, this entire situation is a wake up call for you and your priorities. There is no amount of chores you can do to make your wife respect your or want to jump your bones.

0neMinute · 2024-03-27T12:40:35+00:00

Wife separated once after our first child, she came back 2 months later. A month into it she told me she had went out with her ex boy friend once but it didn’t matter since we where separated. 3 years later and another baby she is leaving me again and trying to ram the divorce through as fast as possible. Dont let them come back easy make them really regret leaving other wise you will be the one working to show them why they shouldn’t leave again instead of the other way around.

GroundbreakingLaw864 · 2024-03-27T11:40:25+00:00

Wife filed for divorce 62 days after our second child was born.

I gave her space and slow rolled the process within the bounds of the law and the guidance of my attorney. In this time, we got through financial diligence and worked on but never finalized a separation agreement.

After 3 months, she realized she was sleep deprived/maybe PPD, that I wasn’t a monster nor responsible for all of her unhappiness, and that being a single parent was way more difficult than working through our issues.

We are back together now and doing better. We still have therapy and issues to work through but the divorce is off the table.

Of course, now I have my own trust issues to work through. But I want my family to stay together and I love my wife so I will do that work. I pray she does as well but realize only time will tell.

Ok_Smile_60 · 2024-03-27T03:32:37+00:00

If she left in that situation, it’s almost always to have space to fuck other men.

If she comes back it’s just because she isn’t able to live on her own, was unable to secure someone else to take care of her, and needs a warming plate until she can do the above

Title	Any stories of reconciliation after physical separation?
Author	whatwedontheshadows
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	March 26, 2024 2:30 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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