What was the intention of this girl

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-04-11T19:14:12+00:00

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Pik000 · 2024-04-11T06:36:54+00:00

3 dates in Miami with nothing more than kissing while she went to your hotel room? You weren't taking the lead enough and her interest disappeared.

kornhell · 2024-04-11T08:20:57+00:00

You said it yourself: Missed to escalate more. Next.

0rvilleTootenbacher · 2024-04-11T04:31:15+00:00

why did you add your height lol

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-04-11T11:01:44+00:00

You need to learn to be honest with women and stop playing all these games and thinking you need to play some 4D chess to get them in bed. Tell her straight up: "hey girl, I'm in town for only a week, but I would love to spend as much time with you between the sheets as I can before I go, so I will always remember you...."

Have the balls to be honest. Not a creep. But honest in a romantic way.

PsychoticPangolin · 2024-04-11T05:21:38+00:00

You could just stop the mental gymnastics and ask her? What did you talk about in your conversations?

Don't frame her as a gold digger when you're the one insisting on going to all these expensive places. See if she'll spend time with you doing something more casual, like a walk or picnic.

Dandys3107 · 2024-04-11T05:07:14+00:00

Girls don't really verbalise their emotions accurately, she may be open to many possibilities, depending on the mood and your actions. What happened here is probably you were too passive to escalate, and she thought you are quite insecure and her interest dropped down.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-04-11T16:03:16+00:00

This place is becoming a "Dear Penthouse Letters" fantasy sub

UnkemptGoose339 · 2024-04-11T16:49:53+00:00

Her intention was to bang you, you idiot, lol. I'd ghost you too if I went back to your hotel room and you didn't bust any kind of moves on me.

NoMoassNeverWas · 2024-04-11T12:00:16+00:00

I'm confused how you didn't escalate after kissing. Especially in a hotel room.

Do you just not let your hands go? I remember my first kiss, it was like animal instincts took over then, the hands did all the work.

Sweaty-Platypus3674 · 2024-04-11T17:40:56+00:00

Shes pretty much just just using you for resources and attention

DaygameCode · 2024-04-11T16:15:42+00:00

Women don’t have firm intentions. They don’t know what they want. They just decide what they want while they are living the experience. So they just go with the flow and spending on how they feel they might want one thing or another or stop wanting it altogether. So don’t try to figure out their intentions. Only guys have intentions, women either accept or reject those intentions depending on how the guy makes them feel about it. Men lead and women chose if they follow or not.

Title	What was the intention of this girl
Author	nyc_cloud_enthusiast
Upvotes	19
Comments	15
Date	April 11, 2024 3:46 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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