I (21F) keep attracting people that only care about their pleasure and that want to take advantage of me. I keep ending up in dangerous situations, even if I think the partner is safe and nice. Apparently it is because I have "the look" of a prey. Because of trauma responses, I tend to freeze or get into sex for safety when I feel that I won't have a choice. Even if I've been clear about my past SAs and issues, the partners, male of female, usually act tender and supportive in the beginning, and end up abusing my trust. I still have desires regarding sex and I want to be able to have an healthy sex life. We're not very compatible sexually with my bf, so we're in an open relationship. So far I've only had 2 partners with whom sex was pleasurable most of the time, and one the two REALLY insisted for it and crossed my boundaries (that's why I didn't keep having sex with her). How do I get rid of what makes people know they can take advantage of me?