Men who seek much younger women than themselves tend to have massive baggage

Ime, the guy enjoys your body and youth, but then expects you to behave way more mature and way more adult than you actually are.

These men usually aren't themselves actually emotionally equipped to deal with shit that goes along with dating a much younger woman.

It's like they want a fully developed, mature adult brain, in the body of a teenager, and are then SHOCKED when it doesn't work out that way.

They don't want the drama, the insecurities, the difficulties that come with being a teenager / very young adult. They're usually emotionally unstable or immature themselves (or, as one of my exes put it, "young at heart").

But it's not that they're some kind of carefree, outgoing, energetic people, they're just emotionally stunted.

Men who seek out much younger women than themselves who say they don't want "old women with emotional baggage" are usually the one with the baggage themselves.