Hey all, I feel like I’ve been dropping the ball coming off of first dates with girls I’m actually attracted to and think are cool. I was texting someone who I mistakenly thought was a girl I was into, only to scroll through to find it was a different one (who I’ve seen a few times but don’t see going anywhere).

I’m fairly attractive, have some things going for me but I also don’t feel totally confident/comfortable with women I’m actually into. It’s challenging to really feel comfortable, fully myself and connect on first date and even second dates. This also can go for connecting with people in general.

I’ve been with a number of girls but the majority of them are not ones I see it really going somewhere with.

How do I develop more confidence and comfort with girls I’m actually into.