Most men have been assaulted just like women

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-05-24T04:23:13+00:00

Sounds like you mean sexual assault, which is now defined as any unwanted sexual touching. In that case, here's a study saying 71% of men have been sexually victimized BY WOMEN.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-023-02717-0#Tab2

The_Local_Rapier · 2024-05-24T06:09:04+00:00

Women are FAR more likely to physically assault you for being angry after they sexually assaulted you too. In fact quite a few times in my life I’ve had my dick touched by some fat stinker in a club and when I’ve said what the fuck are you doing I’ve been slapped across the face and one of the times I had a drink thrown over me

AirSailer · 2024-05-24T11:38:21+00:00

I've been sexually assaulted more times than I can remember. Hell, as an adult male I've had minor females attempt to sexually assault me. It's basically something I've experienced at all stages of my life; right after I was born due to MGM, girls hitting me in the privates growing up or actually/trying to touch me sexually, being forced to have sex with a girl at 17 which is when I "lost" my virginity, and then it got worse when I was in college. Once I got married I can't count how many times my ex-wife would get drunk and demand sex, and then get violent with me if I didn't go through with it.

Current_Finding_4066 · 2024-05-24T11:11:12+00:00

You are correct. Men are the main victims, when it comes to murders, robberies, assaults.

Even when you look at intersexual violence, there is hard data that women do a lot of assaulting, harassment and also sexual assaulting of men. But it is often downplayed, as men are on average a bit stronger and a bit less likely to get hurt in the process. If course, I have never seen a feminist say that slapping a woman just a little is okay, they always say no amount of violence against a women is acceptable. Of course when it comes to men, their brain shortcircuits and all of the sudden being on average a bit less strong is a justification why we need not worry about women harming men.

FishRaposo1 · 2024-05-24T13:56:28+00:00

I literally grew up being sexually harassed by women, specially during middle/high school. Unfortunately, women get a pass on being violent.

UNR2 · 2024-05-24T13:18:36+00:00

I’ve not been sexually assaulted but I have had objects thrown at me that have injured me. I’ve learned to exit the situation quickly when it appears things are escalating.

MarkBrahmin · 2024-05-24T07:38:16+00:00

I’ve been sexually assaulted twice. 1. At the beach and 2. At a massage parlor. It was a “happy ending” place but I didn’t know that until the lady started jerking me off.

eli_ashe · 2024-05-24T15:44:23+00:00

this is likely basically true. tho i would seriously caution against taking the claims you hear on 'assault' too seriously. most of the claims are of the form 'unwanted' sexual contact of this or that sort. which are concerns bout the aesthetics of a sexual encounter (like or dislike) not consent.

See here for instance for a breakdown of the rationales currently being used to define sexual violence.

These aesthetic kinds of concerns are not to be taken overly seriously. tho noting that they happen to everyone regardless of gender is an appropriate way to dispel the myth bout them.

they're derivatives of a 'yes means yes' consent modeling, which is generally not reflected in the law or in most moral codes for that matter, see here.

you can also understand this as a tendency to criminalize mens behavior.

moonsquid-25 · 2024-05-24T23:16:29+00:00

As a 48 yr old male, I've been physically assaulted by two separate women, and one of those also emotionally abused me. Also, a third woman emotionally abused me but nothing physical. If we'd like to consider cheating as emotional abuse, rack up two more instances.

hasbulla_magomedov · 2024-05-25T17:18:17+00:00

Can we acknowledge how disgusting it is that women act like men don’t also get assaulted and SAd? You know how they complain about mansplaining, well they do the same thing to men about sexual assault. They condescendingly talk about it like men are the only perpetrators and never victims. Like thanks but actually don’t need you to explain sexual assault to me ive been through it 😆

Liesa92 · 2024-05-24T19:51:42+00:00

Honestly, I do not know - but that would suck - it sucks both ways and I hope no one ever touches anyone else without direct consent. I think men are often led to believe they are not manly if they were molested and that f* sucks. It all sucks. I hope we can teach the next generation better, but I have little hope

Mesterjojo · 2024-05-24T13:27:56+00:00

You didn't come up with an idea.

You had a thought.

You are correct. But at 15 you should know how to use Google to find supporting statistics. There are plenty. And if you're in texas the attorney generals website has the Socrates data are full of such stats. Harvard did a fascinating study on the subject.

Google.

iliyb · 2024-05-24T05:07:18+00:00

I wonder who's doing all those assault's. Could it be the gender that fills prisons up?

Title	Most men have been assaulted just like women
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Date	May 24, 2024 4:11 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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