How to find a girlfriend ?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-05-28T07:37:49+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

DaygameCode · 2024-05-27T18:17:48+00:00

If you look for a girlfriend, women will feel it and they will all reject you. The only way to get a girlfriend is to not go looking for a commitment with a woman and focusing exclusively on going out, having fun, and hooking up without bringing up labels, relationships or anything serious.

The labels (boyfriend girlfriend) should be the woman’s idea not yours.

Men are the gatekeepers of relationships, and the woman must feel like they have to earn the relationship.

If you are the one seeking to convince a girl for a relationship or telling her you want a relationship before she asked you to be your girlfriend, you lose.

You say you are a salesman, well when it comes to relationships, the seller is actually the woman, and the buyer is the man. So, it’s not your role to give her good reasons to date you, it’s her role to persuade you to date her instead of other girls, and your role is simply to evaluate whether she is good enough for you to date exclusively or not.

You are the buyer, she is the sales person. You may be looking to buy (approaching and entering the store to look around and see what’s there, approaching women, starting conversations, seeking more info before you make a buying decision”), but that doesn’t mean you have to convince the seller because you are the one buying, not selling.

So, it’s not you who should have pressure, it’s the woman who should have pressure to be in a relationship with you because you are the catch, not her.

KingOnixTheThird · 2024-05-27T18:03:16+00:00

Here's a quiz which will give you a good idea on what is the best way to meet women based on your personal attributes. Whichever method it comes up with for you, I would recommend starting there.

https://www.opinionstage.com/page/b950b2b9-b80b-48c2-8fa5-e9fb25bf94c7

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-05-27T18:44:54+00:00

Instead of relying on information from your friends, why don’t you download the apps and see for yourself. Guys get way in their feelings about online dating because they don’t have success, and then say, “Nah, only girls online are trash.” It’s a defense mechanism to soften the rejection. Met my LTR from Bumble, there were tons of attractive “girlfriend type” women on there. If you want practice, try Hinge. The women are generally less physically attractive, but it’s the easiest to get dates. Don’t follow your friends or let them hold you back

Exact_Commercial973 · 2024-05-28T00:34:58+00:00

By not wanting one that’s how you get one

big_daug6932 · 2024-05-27T21:16:56+00:00

Don’t look. Let them come to you. Have big &ick energy. Be confident.

MentalCelOmega · 2024-05-28T03:31:46+00:00

You don't. It is literally impossible to get a girlfriend unless you are a 9/10 alpha-tier male.

Kagenikakushiteru · 2024-05-27T19:46:54+00:00

I’ve got heaps. Porsche. Nice house. Party room in downtown privately owned. Take them holidays.

Title	How to find a girlfriend ?
Author	Vdeoxis
Upvotes	23
Comments	23
Date	May 27, 2024 5:42 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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