Reward good behaviour and punish bad behavior.

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You must reward and punish

Like previously mentioned, it is your job to maintain discipline and the respect of the house rules. For that, you must be able to reward and punish. Rewarding stimulus

Good submissive behaviour must be rewarded. The best way to reward women without creating yourself problems in the future is by praising them and giving them more attention. If she has a good overall behaviour, just express genuinely how beautiful she is when she does that or how proud you are to be with such a good woman who does this. When she is good, flood her with love and compliments. Negative punishment

If she is disrespectful or starts showing signs of unacceptable behaviour, immediately end the current activity and remove all the attention you have on her. She instantly becomes unworthy of being noticed by you. She is temporarily banished from your world. Do not react to her drama, just calmly ignore her existence. This is like mental torture for women, because they crave for attention. If she does not live with you, drop her at her place, and cut off all communication for a period of 2 to 7 days depending on the gravity of the transgression. If she lives with you and she is the mother of your child, ignore her totally and keep yourself busy. If you need to communicate with her for important reason like kids, go with a business tone and keep it short. A good dominant figure doesn’t need to raise his hand on women. If she is bad-shit-crazy, well kick her out of your life, break-up or divorce. Take responsibility for your bad choice, learn from it, and move on with your life.

As long as you are being a good dominant figure and things are all under control:

She must respect you at all times. She must not argue. She must not rebel against your dominance. She must speak to you with a soft tone. She must never use aggressive language, posture or movement towards you. She must say thank you when you treat her. 

When those off-limits things happen, stay cool and firm, explain what she did wrong and punish her.

If it gets out of control too often, seriously consider the fact that you’re doing something wrong. Take responsibility for her bad behaviour, come back and read the articles Part 1 and 2 again, also read How to tame your girl friend and correct the situation.

It is as important as punishment so remember: when she serves you well, give her plenty of attention and tell her how a good girl she is!

Punishment as defined in the article above. Please read the article before you reply about punishment being wrong because you are thinking about the wrong type of punishment in your own mind.

How would you punish a woman who forgets about an agreed meeting time? She has to meet you eventually because you have something on her. She has previously done surprising things to please you, so she isn't a lost cause.

The challenge is to not resort to the easy way out of hard-nexting immediately and to get a pump.

Punishment is not the goal but the means to an end of a pump. It also gives her a chance to react and redeem herself since she isn't a lost cause. There is no anger or bitterness in planning this punishment.

OPTIONS:

Ignoring her completely doesn't work since she doesn't crave for your attention right now and the withdrawal of attention doesn't make her feel like she is missing out.

Is the right punishment to ignore her temporarily? If yes, how would you do it? If no, what punishment would you deal?

Update: She was late and my messaging client failed me. Nonetheless, still want to original question to be answered.