Seeking advice:)

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-07-01T18:40:43+00:00

Buddy find a guide on youtube . I’d have to show you - me explaining it in text will only confuse you.

Rabbit-Punch · 2024-07-01T21:12:10+00:00

Just keep doing approaches. Trying to change your body language consciously isn’t a good strategy. If you feel good then your energy is good. You will feel good if you do strong approaches. Even if you don’t feel good at first, keep going and learn to focus on things that make you feel good. So keep doing approaches and make sure you’re focused on the right things (don’t focus on judging yourself, worrying about something, focus on having fun, or the person you’re talking to, or something funny that happened)

If you just want to know what’s attractive from the outside and want a temporary solution. High energy is more attractive. Being louder is more attractive.

dobbs1997 · 2024-07-01T23:20:28+00:00

How do you feel about yourself ??

postbody · 2024-07-02T12:52:26+00:00

If you feel good you act good. So learn to enjoy yourself. If your body is stiff take swing, salsa or bachata classes and go to socials.

Velvettouch89 · 2024-07-03T04:20:47+00:00

First off, you don't want to be energetic. Relax. Be confident and in control of yourself. Imagine you are right where other people want to be and act as if. The next step is to act appropriately for the situation, if you're on a roller coaster, yeah have fun. If you're in the office in your boss is giving a presentation, shut the fuck up and do not make jokes.

As far as being on a date, act appropriately as well. You can be engaged in the conversation or the task at hand, such as making pottery, or talking about your passion, but you don't need to be energetic in the sense of extreme gestures, loud exaggerated statements, laughing all the time, trying to 'motivate' people to get up and do things out to 'have fun'. Relax. Keep your shoulders back. Always sit back in your chair with your head looking up, don't look at your feet while you walk. Make eye contact. Only sit forward in your seat when saying something important. Don't blink when saying something important or giving a command. Smile when something makes you smile, laugh when something's funny. Keep your hands to yourself unless you know the person extremely well, never initiate contact with the woman until she does, and even then keep it sparse. You are in control. Keep your hands out of your pocket. Don't loiter, do your task and leave, you should always have something important to do, but everything you are doing is important and with a purpose to you, so don't do useless shit.

The extreme energy pick up artist clown bullshit is needy supplicating behavior. The young 20 something's that act this way communicate the opposite they intend: they communicate nervousness and a fear of being rejected.

There are a ton more but this should get you through every situation with green flags

AquaGame · 2024-07-01T21:53:18+00:00

Most if not all of your sub communications (facial expressions, body language, etc) is rooted in how you feel about yourself and the world and your relationship to both..

Title	Seeking advice:)
Author	Zealousideal_Shame66
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	July 1, 2024 6:06 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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