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Alex_Mercer_23 · 2024-08-02T07:25:06+00:00

Here's a resource on it.

Farrell, in his 1999 book "Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say" suggests that the domestic homicide numbers are somewhat to be questioned.

https://archive.org/details/warren_farrell_women_cant_hear_what_men_dont_say/page/n161/mode/2up?q=But+aren%27t+husbands+more+likely+to+kill+their+wives&view=theater

"But aren't husbands more likely to kill their wives than vice versa? Again, we enter the arena of "who's the biggest victim?" It bothers me to have to document that the sexes kill their spouses about equally, but there are life-and-death consequences that result from feminists persuading the public that it is almost exclusively husbands who kill wives. It leads to financing of only women's shelters and hotlines, without shelters and hotlines for men, thus leaving men with no place to go when they are in danger, so they become powder kegs who endanger their wives rather than people who can find a supportive retreat temporarily and teach them Part I's relationship language permanently."

"The brief answer to this accusation is that no one knows for sure which sex kills the other more. In a second we'll see why it's likely that more wives kill husbands, but until the government is willing to collect data about the three female methods of killing, we can only do an educated guess. I'll explain."

"On the surface, the Bureau of Justice reports women are the perpetrators in 41 percent of spousal murders. However, the male method of killing is with a knife or gun, done by himself; it is easily detected and reported. The three female methods of killing are designed to not be detected, to have the man's death appear as an accident, so insurance money can be collected."

"The first mostly-female method is poisoning. The second is the wife hiring a professional killer, The third is the wife persuading a boyfriend to do the killing."

"These last two methods, if discovered, are never listed by the FBI as a woman killing a man. They are listed, rather, as “multiple-offender" killings. We only know that in multiple-offender killings there are four times as many husbands as victims than wives, according to the FBI. That is, the 41 per-cent figure does not include either of these female methods of killing."

"How common are multiple-offender, usually contract, killings? We don't know. Perhaps the best hint we have of how many husbands could be killed by contract comes from the FBI, reporting that some 7800 men were killed without the killer being identified (vs. 1500 women). This number is almost nine times larger than all of the wives killed by spouses and ex-spouses put together. However, this “nine times as many” figure is a very inadequate hint since many of these men were doubtless killed by other men, and many are unmarried. It just gives us an understanding that multiple-offender killings must be considered before we can claim that more men murder wives than vice-versa."

"Most important, of the hundred or so contract killings about which I have read, only a small percentage were originally recognized as such, the very purpose in hiring a professional, as with poisoning, was to have the husband's death appear as an accident so the wife can collect insurance money."

"Roberta Pearce, a teacher's aide, didn't have enough money to hire a real pro. But she knew if she killed her husband and got away with it, she would have $200,000 in life-insurance money and a home of her own. So she offered two of her fifteen-year-old students $50,000 each, sex, and a car if they would do just one thing - kill her husband. Statistically, though, Roberta will not be listed as a wife who killed her husband."

"A husband is much more likely to kill in an emotional fit of rage (so much for the rational sex!). Or he kills his wife and children, and then turns the gun to his own head. Next time you read about a husband killing a wife in the newspaper, read a little further in the article and you'll be surprised to see how often he also kills himself. And obviously the killing of himself indicates that money is not his primary motivation. When people commit suicide, it is because they feel there is no one who loves them or needs them."

"In brief, a wife’s style of killing reflects her motivation, which requires the killing not to be detected; a husband’s style of killing reflects his motivation and, well, a husband who kills himself is pretty likely to be caught - a dead husband is a dead giveaway. Even if her killing does get detected, it is much more likely to never be recorded as a spouse killing - but as a multiple-offender killing, or an accident or a heart attack. When a woman is murdered, we are more likely to track down the killer than when a man is murdered."

"As a result of the invisibility of the female methods of killing, women who do kill benefit from the stereotype of women as innocent, and are treated very differently by the law: thirteen percent of spousal murder cases with women defendants result in an acquittal vs. 1 percent of murder cases with men defendants. Similarly, the average prison sentence for spousal murder (excluding life sentences and the death penalty) is almost three times longer for men than for women - 17.5 years vs. 6.2 years. And, thus far, a woman has never been executed for killing only a man. When we can only see women as innocent, the law becomes equally blind."

Common-Ferret-1435 · 2024-08-02T08:13:34+00:00

You’d think women who fear men would just, you know, stay away from men, but even with all their fear and hatred, the urge to gold dig is too strong and they can’t stay away.

corporate_robot_dude · 2024-08-02T11:44:58+00:00

It's really disingenuous this attitude, and also that it's accepted to shame incels or men retreating from social norms by calling them dangerous. Instead of using some empathy (which women claim to have from all their therapy), they double down on the shaming because it's an instinctual response to men who no longer provide value and is seen as a threat.

The vast majority of these men don't want to be social outcasts, but their situation can be a symptom of many things like econonomics, their appearances, or life circumstances. The average incel who retreats in his mom's basement is NOT a threat for simply wanting peace from a crazy world. Especially not in contrast to the loud blue haired feminist who stirs up drama or the single moms raising the next generation of criminals.

Isn't it ironic that a broke single mom grifting off government services is seen as empowered and worthy of praise vs the basement dweller who is supported by mom and keeps to himself?

mzbc · 2024-08-02T13:44:55+00:00

Why do the subs that block us not FULLY block us? Reddit lets us see their drivel and even type a reply, only to say “sorry try again later”. And it looks like we can’t block subs.

They want attention but not accountability.

NullableThought · 2024-08-02T11:01:32+00:00

This is bigoted behavior and no different than people avoiding certain races due to fear.

beowulves · 2024-08-02T12:30:37+00:00

I don't overthink it. I can see self loathing and trauma. That's all it is nothing more. It's at worst narcissistic chaos and attention seeking.

raspherem · 2024-08-02T14:31:47+00:00

Women who have irrational fear of men are the same women who support and vote open US-Mexico border used by child traffickers and drug traffickers and by illegals who are coming from Venezuelan purposefully emptied prisons. They are bigoted swallowers of communism and an adherent to authoritarianism.

visibell · 2024-08-02T17:13:07+00:00

At the very first these women are doing it intentionally. Just like the "Bear Vs Men" argument they want men to feel like they are sub-humans.

Now how are some men going to respond to this Dramatic or Stagy behaviours of women?

The first step is to recognize that this behavior is simply dramatic or stagy...not to mention bullying and cowardly. The next step is to use every experience you have with these people and situations to figure out what to do the next time you will encounter it. When you encounter it, afterwards think back and analyze what exactly happened, and how you would have responded differently and more confidently if you had to go through the experience again.

A few years ago I was visiting my mother in my hometown, and one afternoon I went out for a walk and stopped into a neighborhood coffee shop and grabbed a coffee and a newspaper. I sat down at a table.

In the corner, I noticed some old biddy sitting alone, glaring at me. For no earthly reason. There was some sort of 'women's center' in the neighborhood, across the street from the coffee shop, and apparently she was a refugee from it and my presence in the coffee shop was cause for offense.

I twisted my chair around so that she could see my face and I could see her out of the corner of my eye while I read my paper. I said nothing to her, minded my own business, drank my coffee, took great interest in the current events in the paper...but made it very clear with my body language that I had just as much right to be there as she did, and that I was not going anywhere. I was ready to sit there all day to make the point.

She had no where to go with that. She could either stay and rage silently, or surrender the space and leave.

After a while, I got up to order another coffee, and when I came back to my table and newspaper, she was gone.

I went back there a few more times during my visit. They made great coffee.

Snoo82945 · 2024-08-02T07:13:24+00:00

Good idea, this will further divide men and women.

What we should do is shut down radical man-hating feminist who are loudest in media.

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