Girl wants to go to gym together

norwegiandoggo · 2024-08-15T12:12:03+00:00

Hold up brother. You're asking how to deal with this situation but we need to first adress all the mistakes you have made up until this point.

Why are you talking to a girl for WEEKS without asking her out? You are digging yourself DEEP in the friendzone with this behavior.
When you go out with a girl YOU should choose the activity. YOU should take the lead. YOU should plan activities and take her out.
If you didn't clarify that it's a date, then it's NOT a date and you're further friendzoning yourself by going to these friendly hangouts.

Now... Think about how you want to adress these issues first before you wonder about "how to escalate" with a girl who likely already considers you "a friend".

Here's a tip:

Turn down the friendly gym hangout. Say you cannot make it.
Ask her out on a DATE where YOU planned the activity. And make sure it's 100% clear you're asking her out on a date. There should be zero ambiguity. Use the word date. "I want to take you on a DATE"

Risk the fucking rejection. The longer you pretend you want to be friends the more you dig yourself into the friendzone. It may already be way too late, but heck, better to shoot your shot late than never I guess

FederalBlood · 2024-08-15T19:36:03+00:00

Just an FYI, if you get friendzoned don’t despair. If you’re a legit cool dude, girls won’t hesitate introducing their friends to you. It’s probably the number 1 advice I’d give my younger self.

Just gotta not put her on a pedestal and be flexible.

vergil_never_cry · 2024-08-15T13:20:37+00:00

Very likely or soon to be 2. Who the fuck escalates at a gym, take her out on an actual date you wusp

czfreak · 2024-08-15T23:58:11+00:00

Most likely friendzoned since youve been alone with her and didnt escalate. Only way to find out is to ask her on a real date or physically escalate when yall hang out again

Melodic_Sir4414 · 2024-08-16T06:21:49+00:00

if a woman likes you she will say one of the following (with variations but you get the point)

1) "you're hot" (not cute)

2) I want to hook up with you

case closed

Holiday_Treacle6350 · 2024-08-16T08:21:04+00:00

talk to other girls infront of her whenever you get the chance. then see what happens

Dandys3107 · 2024-08-15T11:26:48+00:00

It’s a good place to show your attractive physical traits and get warmed up. If she comes up with such proposition, maybe she wants to check if you would escalate in beneficial circumstances. Either way, it won’t happen on its own, you need to make some progress by your own initiative, stay closer, make eye contact, smile, touch casually, grab drinks afterwards.

mackie__m · 2024-08-15T20:00:15+00:00

Follow Pete davidson s advice in some movie. Cut her off completely and see what happens.

ballfond · 2024-08-15T17:16:33+00:00

When she asks you "what do you think about sex ''

Then you reply : i am male is what I thought

BLKSheep93 · 2024-08-15T11:09:11+00:00

Look up ekamxsam on Instagram for inspiration

tabure67 · 2024-08-15T10:48:47+00:00

Do you wear your heart on the sleeve or can you hide your emotions? Let's say you meet a guy and you are getting the feeling, the excitement, you know the butterflies, you are expecting something big will happen with him, [her name]. Could you hide what's happening or could your friend notice that's happening right now?

jarrai8000 · 2024-08-15T18:47:16+00:00

Here is what I would do: Do the workout with her. After it's over, tell her how sexy she looks all sweaty. Tell her that seeing her like this makes you hard. (Etc)

Either she goes with it, or you get your rejection.

If she does reject you, try and play it cool, and if you are friend zoned, get her to be your wing girl .

Title	Girl wants to go to gym together
Author	UntoldSadLife
Upvotes	49
Comments	29
Date	August 15, 2024 10:34 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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