Getting Over Oneitis

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-09-04T11:14:37+00:00

I always remembered all the flaws of the person. No one's perfect.

Ryan_the_Scion · 2024-09-04T11:42:38+00:00

If you on some level believe the societal myth of The One who completes you, and you only had this one chance and now you blew it - then realize that that idea is just a myth. It gained traction with Christianity to spread social stability, and it's more right to think of The Ones. Other girls have other qualities. They might have good stuff about them which your oneitis lacks. They could be just as good of a match, if not even better. I think you're onto the best remedy already: The more you get yourself out there, the more women you'll meet, the bigger chance you'll see someone who's above and beyond better for you than your oneitis. That's the truth, pure and simple. Good luck, to anyone struggling!

Okayhi33 · 2024-09-15T02:36:40+00:00

You don’t need to sleep with a bunch of women but you do need to continue to talk to and date other women unless she explicitly states she wants to be exclusive. This advice is for both men and women.

Ok-Entertainer-1401 · 2024-09-03T21:35:53+00:00

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Title	Getting Over Oneitis
Author	Ok-Entertainer-1401
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	September 3, 2024 8:59 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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