I've noticed this sentiment being expressed online a lot, that despite women being more lw in their voting patterns, they are actually less accepting of outsiders then men. Some even go as far to say they are way more bigoted then men. According to those who say this, men are more likely to date, befriend and be friendly towards people who don't look like them vs women. They say this proves women are fake with their compassion to others like refugees for example. I will note it's mainly men who I see repeating this.

I still wonder where this sentiment comes from and if it's true in your experience.