I will change this post to some women and some w men ****

I am a voluptuous woman I went from slim thick to actually thick. Right now I'm about 5'4 size 12-14 w woman , dark hair pale skin, and I have an hourglass pear shape regardless of weight.

When I was actually married, I married somebody who was 50/50. Since then I have been engaged to a w man about 17 years older than me when I was at the age of 37 who prefers thick women and happens to be a millionaire. I decided to leave him because I don't marry people just because they are well off, that's a nice thing but it's not my only priority. He ended up having views that were very different than mine and I did not want to move across the country. I have taken a break from dating for a while since him and been celibate.

Fast forward,I'm 40, Greek American ex of mine that I stayed on great terms with that I broke up with due to things that had nothing to do with him, wants to come back..his mother met me before. He has made even more money than he had before when I originally dated him. He is aware of my size and my shape. Both of these men prefer thick. They don't like Tess H but they are into like Ashley Graham.

Whenever I have gone out in public with these men or with other men that were just dates and not boyfriends or fiances in the past like the two I mentioned, some women give me the dirtiest looks (I have only female friends and I'm good with my friends).

I think that the women in public and sometimes men I see, esp w men, cannot fathom that a woman with a shapely shape of size who can get wealthy men or men that are well off. So does anybody else notice this that they all are convinced you must be a different size to date a wealthy man or you don't deserve it if you are not? Is this a common assumption that people make? Unpopular opinion, but I have to say in this case I even see it on this site. I had to add a lot of abbreviations because the bot kept deleting it due to certain words even though I was talking about myself.