Coming from a religious background, how do I overcome my indoctrination?

Elbynerual · 2024-11-01T17:10:43+00:00

I'm curious what religion teaches these things?

The way to overcome it is very simply just to practice. Talk to women. Learn to be friendly and not weird. Learn social cues like when you should end a conversation and walk away.

Practice, practice, practice. Eventually it will feel normal to you.

zsa666 · 2024-11-01T17:54:03+00:00

You sound like a dream date for a woman on the autism spectrum. No touching, no looking. Heaven!

But assuming you want a neurotypical gal, like they say, just practice, be kind, cultivate empathy so you understand what they are seeing and feeling when they interact with you.

Dandys3107 · 2024-11-01T18:04:33+00:00

I believe there are several things to be realised. First, people often come up with little lies or variety of eristics methods to hold their position in a group or society. Second one, there are plenty of cases where people can't tell you the truth and you need to read between the lines. Third, despite declaring positive intents, many people would subconsciously set you up for failure for them to feel better about themselves. Keeping these matters in mind, you should start forming your mindset from scratch, but this time just on your own, take examples from people that have real experience and start believing actions and decisions, not words. Welcome to the world of adults.

KoleSekor · 2024-11-01T17:24:21+00:00

Exposure therapy. You need to get comfortable looking into their eyes, touching them, and conversing with them. Idk where you'll find women to practice with. Idk where you live or what options might be available to you.

AcrossTheShimenawa · 2024-11-01T17:12:40+00:00

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SameKick5292 · 2024-11-01T17:25:10+00:00

Keep trying my man, sitting on the couch won’t help much.

When you’re on a date that’s going well, it’ll probably come to you naturally. But if you still feel anxious, just be honest with her about your past. The Insurmountable wall is just in your head, and some chicks might actually appreciate your honesty and vulnerability.

postbody · 2024-11-01T17:26:21+00:00

The same way you get better at walking, you walk.

It’s not rocket science, people

Title	Coming from a religious background, how do I overcome my indoctrination?
Author	Infinite_Resort_1056
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Comments	18
Date	November 1, 2024 4:35 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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