Context: I can easily approach girls in quieter spots(not in a creepy way, always positive interactions) or when I'm not planning on approaching and she just shows up around a corner or something like that.

Here's where I feel weird to approach:

  • Shopping streets. Tons of people around, spotlight effect. Can't do anything.

  • When the girl is already ahead of me and I'd have to run or jog to catch up. Feels weird to have to do that even after watching hundreads of infield footage of this going well.

  • When the girl is on the other side of the street. Similar to the one above. I'd have to fully change my trajectory and I start to think that she'll find that weird or people around me will see it. What if someone I know sees this,etc.

I would like your help fixing this because my biggest problem now is volume of approaches. By doing what I'm doing now, I'd be lucky to get 3 approaches in a day in my city.

This breaks the momentum which makes every approach I make almost always a start from zero.

I'd say that my fundamentals once in a conversation are pretty good. I've gotten lays from Daygame, had a rotation of girls until my last relationship started, I can talk to anyone, people enjoy being around me.

I mention that so you know that I'll be able to calibrate and use your tips with the necessary nuance.

Thanks lads!