men are not equal to women if your allowed to tell one gender what to do while being told off that "you can't tell women what to do"

really am i the only one annoyed by this? like if a women is doing something wrong or stupid ofc you should be allowed to tell her not to do that! its baffling that people think women are strong and are our equals when people are not allowed to tell a women off but are perfectly fine with telling a man what his allowed to do and not do.