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"LMAO look at Jay Z getting assaulted by a girl! He's such a b**ch"

Evesest

May 13, 2014
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Title "LMAO look at Jay Z getting assaulted by a girl! He's such a b**ch"
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Evesest

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Date May 13, 2014 9:25 AM UTC
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"LMAO, look at Jay Z getting hit by a girl. What a b**ch"

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May 13, 2014
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[–]sfg6 16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

an open handed slap is the furthest you need to go with a woman who is insane enough to attack a man and you clearly outmatch her physically. It's not going to break anything but is also going to snap them back to reality quick enough.

[–][deleted] 29 points30 points31 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

5 bucks says she asked to borrow money and flipped out when he said no.

[–]itsmsbetty 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"no! I need to beat Dr. Dre!"

[–]semigod__ 40 points41 points42 points 12 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link

women have lost all respect for decent men.

they know they can assault any man that, if he has something to lose, is not going to attack her.

the only type of men that women will not attack are the ones that have a track record of hurting women, or that women perceive to be willing to hurt her. hence the attraction.

[–]semigod__ 18 points19 points20 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

The weaker sex has in no previous age been treated with so much respect by men as at present--this belongs to the tendency and fundamental taste of democracy, in the same way as disrespectfulness to old age--what wonder is it that abuse should be immediately made of this respect? They want more, they learn to make claims, the tribute of respect is at last felt to be well-nigh galling; rivalry for rights, indeed actual strife itself, would be preferred: in a word, woman is losing modesty. And let us immediately add that she is also losing taste. She is unlearning to FEAR man: but the woman who "unlearns to fear" sacrifices her most womanly instincts. That woman should venture forward when the fear-inspiring quality in man--or more definitely, the MAN in man--is no longer either desired or fully developed, is reasonable enough and also intelligible enough; what is more difficult to understand is that precisely thereby-- woman deteriorates. This is what is happening nowadays: let us not deceive ourselves about it!

[...]

That which inspires respect in woman, and often enough fear also, is her NATURE, which is more "natural" than that of man, her genuine, carnivora-like, cunning flexibility, her tiger-claws beneath the glove, her NAIVETE in egoism, her untrainableness and innate wildness, the incomprehensibleness, extent, and deviation of her desires and virtues.

written by nietzsche in "beyond good and evil" (1886).

[–]Evesest[S] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's complete fire.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's Nietzsche bro, of course it's fire.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well that's a phrase I didn't expect to read today.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

So we should not respect women whatsoever? Cross all their boundaries? That's what I'm sort of confused on in regards to social dynamics with women.

[–]TheSKSpecial 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He's saying to respect women who respect their own femininity.

A woman who wants to attack a man as another man would, or behave as a man would isn't worthy of respect from men, since she has ceased to be "womanly". Why should I, as a man, respect you as a woman when you refuse to act like one?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah ok, that clarifies it better, thanks.

[–]Moneyley 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

the only type of men that women will not attack are the ones that have a track record of hurting women, or that women perceive to be willing to hurt her. hence the attraction. hence the attraction. Attraction ATTRACTION
Hes willing to hurt me and has nothing to lose so I find that twistingly hot. Yet when Im looking to date, am looking for a man that provides/no games no drama but at the same time I also want him not to be afraid to physically hurt me and put his wealth-career at risk because the courts will favor me. Its a vicious VICIOUS cycle

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Equal rights...equal fights"

[–]TheSKSpecial 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Equal rights...and lefts.

[–]Strongproudwoman 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Coming from a security background, I have hit a few women before. Technically when a man or a woman takes hostile action against you or others they are considered " combatants". You gotta do what you gotta do to take control of the situation.

Example: one night at a club I was working for an intoxicated female started attacking random patrons. I moved in to intervene and she struck me in the nose and I started to bleed. Because I didn't have control of any of her limbs and she was still swinging towards me I threw a head stun ( a closed fist punch to her face) so I could get control of her. Unfortunately I accidentally knocked her out.

Would I do it again? Of course.

Politicly correct? Hell no. There were guys yelling at me " why you have to hit a girl man!"

Some people just can't understand or they are sheep to society and act like drones. You can't argue with these folks and they just keep bitching and bitching until they are heard and get what they want.

[–]FullMetalAsshole 21 points22 points23 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I've had an experience with this.

I was at a club on a back patio and being social. Ending up talking to this group of people when a couple of the bros invited me to their booth for a cigar.

Now to me things are going smoothly, I'm puffing on a cigar, talking to some girls, and chillin with some cool bros.

Out of nowhere comes the Mother Hen, the girl that invited all these nice people out. And she's pissed that 1. I am in HER booth and 2. That I'm talking to her friend that is in a relationship.

Reasoning with this creature was impossible from me or her friends. I just stood my ground and sat there when all of a sudden she starts slapping me and trying to shove my face into the wall. I throw my hands to indicate to the group that I'm not gonna touch her.

Bouncer sees this and comes over. Guess who's in the wrong? I almost got kicked out for this but a couple people who witnessed it vouched for me.

Had it been a guy I would've defended myself but this Mother Hen was a frail creature. I'm glad I wasn't that drunk cause I probably would've slammed my Slovak fists right through her hen hole.

[–]TehFuggernaut 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Been there done that, girl slaps me so I put my hands up and yell at her - bouncer comes over ready to throw me out. Its the standard.

[–]Dat_Black_Guy 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How do we a RP's change this discusting standard. I'd gladly stomp her out an leave, but that's just me

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

tl;dr - Strength means jack shit if you're unwilling to exercise that strength when the appropriate time comes.

I would argue it's actually better for you to retaliate and deal with the legal fallout provided you don't have a big long rap sheet.

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points 12 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

It's been a long time since I had to deal with a woman trying to get physically aggressive with me, but I'm a firm advocate of one large shove to the center of the chest.

Unless she is a a BIG girl she'll be airborne and on her ass in one movement and you exit as quickly as possible while she gets her shit back together.

You'll probably cop a beating from the white knights if you aren't pretty physically dominant however.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Well that's another two fold reason why you should lift.

1) Women are far less likely to mess with a man that looks physically fit/strong. I know there are plenty of fat dudes out there who have a ton of strength but looks are more important than the truth in many cases.

2) If you look like you could be a bouncer or even beat the shit out of a bouncer your typical white knight faggots are going to think twice before they'll try to give you a beating... Well unless they're actual cops and that'll only likely happen if you resist arrest (they don't want to ruin the prosecutions chances by roughing you up)

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yup couldn't have put it better myself.

Personally i actually am a licensed bouncer (I don't actually work doors any more, money wasn't good enough for the amount of aggro)

At 6'2, 230lbs and a 50/34 chest/waist ratio I don't find many guys who will cross the physical line with me. But having quite a soft face I find a lot who will talk the talk about it until their arse drops at the very last minute. Presumably I look powerful but not mean.

Your first point is perfectly true but applies to a greater degree to men than women. Mainly because a woman expects pretty much all men to be able to overpower her, but not to do it. Doesn't matter how much power you have if you won't use it. Men on the other hand expect to get both barrels if they try that shit, and both barrels from 230lbs is gonna hurt a lot more than from 130.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Unlike police in general. I respect bouncers because I know how much bullshit they have to deal with.

I think if we as a society step away from the norms of our forefathers with regards to women (ie. dont hit girls) then women will stop trying to act like they have the biggest dick in the fucking room and getting up in a guy's grill because he said women should be pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen or something equally offensive.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

In my experience you don't even have to say anything offensive to a modern British woman to get her to kick off physically. Both in terms of direct aggression and also, less overtly, in terms of the use of force to restrain your ability to leave.

Reject a girls advances sexually? Perfectly valid reason for a slap

Refuse to play her song in a club? Perfectly valid reason to spit at you

Try to get away from her when you're sick of her shit? Perfectly valid reason to dig her nails in your arm to stop you leaving.

But, as previously stated; lift weights, hold frame, assert yourself, and you'll be fine. Despite her bullshit, and society's tendency to coddle her, you still hold most of the cards in the here and now.

[–]Evesest[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's the only thing that helps keep me sane at the end of the day. Social construct is a great way to make these women feel superior/protected, but at the end of the day it is all up to me whether or not I play into their facade. (which I don't) It gets them visibly upset when someone is out of character in their little fantasy and that's the only joy I can pull from this travesty.

That would be enough for me if only the law didn't favor them so much. Law is something that could end my life as I know it, so in order to even exist I must play along to some extent if a woman decides to put me in that extreme position.

[–]garlicextract 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's why it sucks being well under 6'. I lift and am getting stronger but you can never have the physical presence of someone >6'. And if you are toooooo jacked you get shit for having a napoleon complex/compensating

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You will cop a beating from the white knights.

They will also call the cops and collude a story about you hitting the woman.

You will be charged with assault.

This is not fiction.

[–]Evesest[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Seen it happen.

[–]Moneyley 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

almost happened to my brother when my psycho ex charged him, scratched him etc. Cops get there and collect both versions, he states that she attacked him and she states "he invaded my personal space" it was so F'n sweet seeing her in handcuffs going to jail but now I reflect on how my brother couldve easily gone to jail had the cop accepted her bait.

[–]Evesest[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

GGG cop

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Not in this situation. What his Jay-Z supposed to do, hit her back, lose a sponsorship or two, probably get dropped from his Cognac label, and in the process make this bitch a richer than she could ever be off her own mediocre talent? Because that's what would happen.

[–]genericusername80 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Great way to end up in jail or facing civil charges. If an appropriate time comes, sure... but this hardly seemed like an appropriate time. His bodyguard was there restraining her while she had her temper tantrum, it was a private matter in an elevator (he didn't know the security guard would leak the tape to TMZ)... what was he supposed to do, smack her in the face while his security guard held her back?

I think he handled it pretty well.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I never bothered to watch it... That said his security guard handled it it seems.

I wish women would stop acting like dudes. When women act like guys would I get the urge to punch them or cheer for dudes who do punch them because you know... EQUALITY! :D I like equality when everything is equal not just taking all the rights/privileges and ignoring all the responsibilities involved.

[–]genericusername80 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Gender equality" is a lie, the only truth is gender difference.

[–]Evesest[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Forced gender equality is the only true inequality.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck up a shoulder while going through a door jam: crunch, "Oh sorry"

[–]Evesest[S] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd agree completely.

[–]moosik85 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Guarantee she doesn't get charged with assault even though there is video evidence.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Growing up with an older sister meant there were a few years where she might could overpower me, by use of sharp finger nails in my shoulders, and then she stopped growing at 5' and I kept on til 5' 9".

I was taught not to hit my sister, because I was taught not to hit anybody ... but she ended up deserving it anyway. So I'd hit her.

So my sis knows not to get physical. How do we teach these other bitches. Hire big female sidekicks?

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Dat_Black_Guy 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All of this is true an correct. Unfortunately my problem is the self controlled. Momma an Poppa taught me "someone puts their hands on you, you put em down/Whopo they ass/etc. It dont matter who they are"

And thusly i've whooped as many women's asses as guys. Lord knows without cameras, pictures, bystanders, witnesses. I'd be locked up a long as time ago.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

life is unfair

best thing is to avoid situations like that, but sometimes you just gotta take the least harmful option and move on

[–]Evesest[S] 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Life is definitely unfair. That's exactly my point. People need to stop trying to make it fair by over-coddling those with a disadvantage.

[–]symko 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Please don't complain about life being unfair, I'm sure a person in a third world country would gladly take your place.

[–]Evesest[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Noone is complaining about it being unfair, more like too far to the point of unbalance.

Even still, if we compare our life to those in third world countries there would never be anything to improve just because of the comparison. It's a horrible vantage point for the future.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damned if you do, damned if you don't. It's similar to what Jay-Z said way back in the day "If I shoot you, I'm brainless, if you shoot me, you're famous."

Such is the price of fame and status. Beta males and women WILL take advantage of the fact that the media is just waiting to leap on you and portray you as a loose cannon / misogynist. Someone like Nas will opine that his 55k a month child support to Kelis is extreme, and then there's 10 headlines saying "NAS BROKE AND BITTER! BLAMES EX FOR PROBLEMS!"

It sucks, but at the end of the day, Jay-Z is still the ugly ass motherfucker who found a way to the top of the top, whereas these media leeches are reliant upon people like him to have a job. Dealing with bullshit is a small price to pay for power and status.

[–]1bradyo2 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I agree with your basic concept but....

If a man is hit by a woman, we chastise him and joke about how much of a bitch he is. We see memes spread on social media to the effect of "99 problems but a bitch aint... wait". Haha! This is so humorous that a man was assaulted in an elevator by a woman that he could have done serious harm to, if not killed with his barehands. We laugh at him for not hitting her back, while going off the deep end when somebody like Chris Brown gets physical with a woman. The double standard is gut wrenching.

This isn't entirely true. There were tons of Chris Brown/Rihanna jokes going round social media at the same time. It was to a much lesser extent, but it was still there.

[–]smokeybehr 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There were tons of Chris Brown/Rihanna jokes going round social media at the same time.

Especially this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TOjUKwoHUyw

[–]Evesest[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes, the jokes exist, but when it's against a female they are met with just as much outrage. My annoyance is with the lack of outrage here and the overwhelming presence in the alternative.

I get what you're saying, to an extent, though.

[–]1bradyo2 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And similarly I agree with you.

There's a definite difference between the two situations. The same people that were calling for Chris Brown's head are the same ones mocking Jay-Z.

It would be even more evident if it was the "icon of female empowerment" herself, Beyoncé who hit him. People would have been saying "he deserved it" without even contemplating the circumstances.

[–]styyle 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even now they are contemplating the circumstances. It sickens me that everyone keeps speculating on what Jay z might have done to provoke Solange. Like there is ever a reason for someone to hit someone else. People are saying he probably cheated on Beyonce, and I'm like how is that any of Solange's business?!

[–]netwalker11 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think he's probably got 100 problems now.

[–]JimmyTheIntern 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Here's mine:

Did you hear about Rihanna's new album of home recordings? It's called "Chris Brown's Greatest Hits"

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I want to print this post out and orate it to the masses.

[–]Dat_Black_Guy 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you and me both buddy

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Patrice said it best, we need to go back to a time when women remember that men can throw them through a wall.

[–]FortunateBum 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Amazing to me is just how well Jay-Z's bodyguards handled the situation. Had they seen this before?

Either this family is fucked up or B's sis is fucked up.

Imagine the genders reversed. B's brother starts beating the shit out of Jay-Z. Can you imagine? He'd be disowned.

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Resubmit to /r/mensrights

[–]Evesest[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I've never been there, should I? What kind of title is acceptable there?

Thanks for the suggestion.

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The way you presented was just fine, and it's worth reading. It's just not really on-topic for TRP. That's the only reason I removed it.

TRP is for discussing how to personally thrive, as a male, in a hostile society. Stuff about changing that society, or observations about how it has gone wrong, shoud go to /r/mensrights.

[–]Evesest[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Alright, I just saw "rant" and assumed that's what that tag is for. Can't really think of how to rant about the topic you mentioned tbh

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, our standards are a little in flux right now. We're still learning how to be a subreddit of 50k people, coming from a place of being used to being a subreddit of 5k people.

A little more topic drift was okay when we were smaller, but now the noise level is just higher. So we might be retiring that tag.

I know it's annoying to have your carefully-written stuff yanked, especially when your point is good and valid, but there's just so much anti-male bullshit out there, that if we let TRP become the place to post examples of it, the actual mission will be drowned in the resulting flood.

That flood belongs in /r/mensrights, because that's what /r/mensrights is for.

[–]Evesest[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Completely understood. Appreciate your notice on it being deleted.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

What do the feminists have to say about this? Anybody know?

[–]TheSKSpecial 18 points19 points20 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"He must have said or did something" is their prevailing line of reasoning.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ironically, they normally step to victim-blaming as a first defense.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Would you care? Haha

[–]Evesest[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably not since the title is synonymous with unintelligent.

[–]GiveMeABreak25 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Based on the body language of the two sisters and the fact that the sisters left together and Jay got in a different car-most speculate Jay cheating. Hence, why Beyonce hardly moved an inch.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Since you answered on behalf of feminists, I'll assume you identify as one.

So, the followup question is "Is this okay with you?".

Do you think this was appropriate, reasonable behaviour?

[–]GiveMeABreak25 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Of course not. I was commenting on what I observed women saying.

As a woman, it's about the only thing that makes sense. If my husband cheated on me and, although I don't condone violence on anyone- I might sit back and watch for a minute before I intervened. OR, I would know if my sister was a psycho or not and wouldn't want the next punch to land on me. Either theory works.

But no, of course this was not the way to handle it. But drunks tend to be assholes like that.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's certainly not realistic to expect uncultured people with overfed egos and poor impulse control to refrain from being violent.

However, this does not exempt public reactions to it from scrutiny.

And emerges from that examination is that when people see reprehensible behaviour on the part of those they wish to defend and excuse, they look for explanations, reasons, and causes. But when they see reprensible behaviour on part of those they wish to blame and disempower, they do not look for reasons, they simply issue denunciations.

So it is that when whatever-her-name-was struck Jay-Z, everyone's asking "why". When Chris Brown struck Rhiannon, no one asked "why" (turns out she threw the first punch).

People don't like to change their narratives, or accept data that runs counter to them, especially when that narrative is used as a means to power.

Feminists know from experience that their most effective route to power is the narrative of woman-as-vicitim, because this generates sympathy and help (because human beings, both male and female, are more protective of women).

They must therefore protect that narrative by finding ways to dismiss any example to the contrary. Otherwise they lose some of the effectiveness of their means to achieve power and control.

[–]visualculture 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Don´t get me worng here im all about trp im not some feminist guy, whatever that is. But as men,come on man, that was barely assault, girl on a emotional rollercoaster, god nows what jay z told her or did before they got into the elevator. as long as it´s not a mma fighter chick trying to break your neck why the fuck wouldn´t you just brush it off just as a small child trying to attack you. Don´t make it all about laws and whatever like feminist do. You as a man would not want to hit a clearly physically inferior woman trying to basically scratch you.

[–]Evesest[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nobody is saying to incarcerate the woman. My point is how people react to something that is a negative in both situations. Honestly, it's nothing short of ludicrous.

Women have to learn some accountability for their actions. No, not through getting hit and not through being locked up. I'm just sick of people pretending it's okay for women to attack a man. That's the kind of thing that gets women hurt at the end of the day; because not all men react the same. It's just foolish any way you look at it.

[–]styyle 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think you should check out the full video. Towards the end, she smacked him on the face with her clutch bag. These bags can not only be hard, they can have metal ornaments on them and such. She could have easily hurt him very badly if the body guard was not there. This all still speaks to the the fact that society considers women as the weaker sex and so they can't hurt a man. It is very admirable how he handled the situation, however, if the body guard was not present, I believe it would have been well within his rights to use reasonable force to keep that bitch in line.

[–]insanitygrows -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

seriously. I'm reading some of these other comments like WTF? you would beat a girl just because she slapped you or whatever? to me Jay-Z would have looked much worse if he had retaliated physically. He should retaliate by cutting this woman out of his life (as much as possible.)

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was expecting someone to make a racist comparison to primates. But luckily no one did.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The reason for the double standard is the patriarchy.

[–]dub121686 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And everyone would be thinking what a woman beating piece of crap he was if he decided to lay her out

[–]Ryokurin 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://www.elle.com/news/culture/solange-jayz-attack

I think it says volumes that the majority of the people in the comments who disagree and are vile about it are men. They still want to believe that it has to be all his fault.

[–]paranoidsteak 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“I would never hit a woman in my life but I'll shake the shit out of her.” - Chris Rock

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Patrice O'Neal had a good take on it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMOXYraIBeQ&feature=youtu.be&t=7m28s

Watch the whole thing to get some context.

[–]Endorsed ContributorNiftyDolphin 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She was using her sister as a shield. She knew that the other people present would prevent any ass-kicking coming her way.

I think CH has a post that posit that women want the thrill of pseudo-danger, akin to being on a roller coaster. It's scary, but they know they're safe.

I have no doubts that she knew that if she'd have started that crap with no witnesses present, that she'd have ended up crumpled in an unconscious heap in the corner.

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[–]Evesest[S] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Enjoy your day.

[–]maderail -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

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Your no worse then what you're advocating. A useless reply, you don't explain how this is a downfall and simply tell the OP to fuck off, I can see you'd be fun to hang around.

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[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Am I the only one that doesn't give a shit if a woman attacks a man?

It only takes a few seconds and very little energy to subdue her, and most of the time you can just do it with words and the right look.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I prefer a slap to the side of the head.

[–]1mykart 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

What kind of maneuver is that?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

There are probably thousands. Learn a few holds and such, and you can very easily subdue someone weaker than you. Learn enough of them, and practice every day, and you can easily subdue someone stronger than you.

[–]UnderwearStain 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

One of the reasons I laugh so hard at Bill Burr's stand up on this is because it's exactly what to do. Catch the left, catch the right. Knee up to block the groin shot. Pretzel twist spin so that you're spooning her kind of standing up with her own arms straight jacketing her. Then kind of let your weight on her back push her to the floor and hold until she's exhausted herself.

No punching, or violence required by you. Just basically disarm and let her work her little tantrum out.

[–]magx01 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Throw in a few rabbit punches if no one is looking.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just give them a bear hug.

[–]no_keeptalking 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No! Push/Arm Bar that bitch, end of story. I don't care if I was caught with my dick inside another woman. I guarantee that she wouldn't do that to just any man, only the ones she feels she can get away with...

[–]Moneyley -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

when you have billions of dollars its different. heck once you hit 6 figures you think different. You're gonna let some chump/bitch make you throw away all you worked for just so you can say you retaliated? Fuck that, at the end of the day they are more powerful by making you weaker.

[–]no_keeptalking 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't say "beat her!" I offered a solution to get her away from you or subdued.

at the end of the day they are more powerful by making you weaker

So what's your solution? (for the rest of us, billionaires aren't frequenting TRP).

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