Do you have to tell a girl that you just want to hookup or is it implied?

Informal_Sherbert251 · 2024-11-13T04:22:38+00:00

Yea you have to communicate what you are after. If it’s sex, then ask in a respectful way and get declined till you are in the grave because women don’t just want to get average sex for 3 mins till you bust.

Woman want an experience my guy. They want someone who wants them and only them. Like they are the only girl that matters even if it is just a one night stand. You need to penetrate their mind that you are a solid guy with a solid source of income, and that if sex happens it happens, but you don’t care about that. Whatever the relation or lack of relation happens is up to you but the sex is up to her. Whatever you want to lead her to do she’s gotta say yes.

Here’s a pro tip. Woman are playing a souls-like game of dating that takes code to a completely different level then our tiny minds can freaking comprehend. When you guys first make eye contact. If she looks to the side or down, first check of notice. Next 30 seconds is a yes or a no on if she’s interested in you or not. If she looked up, not attracted. If she “plays” with anything slightly like jewelry or her hair, second check. Then she might either play a game of “peekaboo” by hiding her face with something or snickering with her friends if she’s younger about you. If more mature she’ll just whisper to her friend about you. The game for you begins here. If you’ve been staring at her making sure she’s actually interested, then your golden. If not, or if you get called a creep, move on. Dodging a bullet if you get called a creep and move on. Next you have to occupy yourself with something. If not a menu or ordering a drink or dancing, just something where she’s not your focus for 20 seconds. Then look her way again and she should either look down, or to the side, possibly smile, and it’s your final check to actually walk up and introduce yourself. If she’s looked up and rolled her eye or has not looked back at you within that 2 min period, you lost the run and have to restart with another girl. I’m telling you it’s a science of a souls-like game you have to study frame by frame. Worst of all this game is evolving so you gotta adapt to whatever game that individual likes. But regardless until you do your homework and study that, you are just gambling. And if you like to gamble then have at thé and throw yourself into the wolfs. If you have any other questions feel free to dm me cause I got the answers and I’ve done the hw. Would love to hear and see your success.

The1WhoDares · 2024-11-13T04:09:23+00:00

I’m VERY upfront… like mind bogglingly bold & upfront.

I suggest u do the same, it will weed out any type of people who aren’t on the same game plan u r on.

SecretComments · 2024-11-13T14:46:59+00:00

Girl I've been seeing a while now, I met at a bar and after talking a while made a joke about my friends seeing us flirting and not interjecting. She went "Oh..... you're flirting?" I wasn't hiding it. But she didn't pick up on it until I was direct. She liked that. She was fully onboard. And she was flirting too, really, but she didn't fully understand her own feelings yet either.

I don't think most girls actually do. They want you to be direct just as much as you might want THEM to be direct....but they won't do it. Even if they want to. Even if they're desperate. Most never will. Most want the man who will pick up on the subtle cues and then, effectively, toss her over his shoulder and carry her back to his cave. Not literally. But emotionally. Spiritually, lol. Make them feel like you're the Man who Wants Her and isn't afraid to make that Clear. Isn't gonna hide it or pretend otherwise. It's hard to do this, I still don't manage it all the time, but you're not gonna get in trouble and, in night game, very likely won't offend or surprise her even if she declines.

Better to just be a little bold, especially with your words.

Several_Ad_8363 · 2024-11-13T09:09:34+00:00

If you meet a girl at a club or a bar or a party, get her number, invite her for drinks or on a date or to your house, does that imply you just want to hookup?

If she accepts the invitation, without clarifying that more is available, it implies she's willing to just hook up if that's all that comes of it.

If she asks questions, then be honest, obviously, but there is no reason to make her verbally declare that she's sexual before she's been sexual. Let her declare it with her body.

mkkpt · 2024-11-13T06:48:44+00:00

Remove your brain out of the equation. If the chemistry is good, you naturally hook up (assuming hook-up = sex here). You would much prefer to have it happen at your house, but it can happen in a car, stairwell, park, wherever. You have to think ahead a little bit logistics wise to help things along.

Should you also tell her your not looking for anything serious and have a discussion about it, or do you think that's weird?

No, it's not weird. You can bring it up first if you like, it's not a big deal. I will definitely bring it up if we've had sex once or twice.

It's common where I'm from be asked "what are you looking for" on dates. I'd recommend having a canned response (not word for word) for what you want. "I'm open for a relationship if I meet someone amazing. I'm really busy with XYZ, I like meeting new people, going on adventures and seeing what happens." "I'm really busy with XYZ, I'm really enjoying meeting new people, travelling, XYZ stuff. I'm looking for new experiences and having fun at this point of my life, would be great to go on adventures with someone."

Be okay with girls saying "no" or not being interested. Do not debate them. Continue the interaction as long as you have chemistry, until you get a "no" , she leaves or you get cumulative negative responses.

2024-11-13T11:45:18+00:00

Just confront it directly so that she doesn't feel cheated about it

unevendopamine2 · 2024-11-14T03:09:39+00:00

Implied by your actions

Never say it

dafranchise0187 · 2024-11-13T16:23:52+00:00

You don’t say that’s all you want. Keep her wondering and guessing

Title	Do you have to tell a girl that you just want to hookup or is it implied?
Author	Visual-Ordinary-526
Upvotes	24
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Date	November 13, 2024 3:53 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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