Hi everyone, I’m in a really difficult place emotionally and could use some advice. After discovering my husband’s infidelity, I was devastated and felt like I needed someone to lean on. I ended up confiding in some close people in my life, sharing the pain and the details of what happened. At the time, it felt like the right thing to do—I was hurt, angry, and needed support. Now, I’m starting to feel conflicted. On one hand, I still feel deeply betrayed and hurt for having to live with someone who was disloyal to me. It’s hard not to feel resentment or question my decision to stay. On the other hand, I feel bad for him too. He doesn’t know that I shared this part of our lives, but the people I told now view him as a bad person. I see how they subtly treat him differently, and it weighs on me. He has no idea he’s lost respect in their eyes, and I feel guilty for being the one who unintentionally caused that. I’m stuck in this emotional limbo—angry at him for putting me through this, but also sad for the fallout it caused in his life, even though it’s a result of his actions. I don’t know how to reconcile these feelings or how to move forward. Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you deal with these conflicting emotions and navigate the mess that infidelity leaves behind, especially when others are involved? I’d appreciate any advice or insights.