I hate cheaters

Ok-Consideration8724 · 2024-12-16T03:37:49+00:00

I dare you to do an experiment. Look at the results here then go into a feminist space and say that and we will see the difference.

Lolocraft1 · 2024-12-16T03:54:46+00:00

I hate it when cheaters justify themselves by saying there was something wrong with the relationship/lover

How is that even an excuse? If you aren’t satisfied with your relationship, then you break things off first before going after someone else. Because the other person is still trying to be loyal toward you and cheating instead of telling him/her the truth is a breach of trust

Late-Hat-9144 · 2024-12-16T03:37:10+00:00

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Jbabyh666 · 2024-12-16T06:05:57+00:00

Cheating is the new “open-relationship” for them. They would justify this modern term by all means. Cheating is cheating and is the worst to experience.

Plenty_Patience_5491 · 2024-12-16T04:23:26+00:00

Yeah, it's fucked up. I cheated on my ex wife, and it's not something that I'm proud of or is cool or fun or hip to do, it's pathetic. I used to view the world in such a different way, I'll admit a little misogynisticly because I had thought "Well, I can cheat, and she better not because she's the woman, and I'm the man, I need sex all the time, and she doesn't." Just real dark and stupid shit. People are people, I'll admit I'm a bit slow when it comes to human interaction and wasn't in a real relationship before that. I come and admit this stuff not because it's easy, I could easily lie and just join the chorus and say "Yeah, I hate cheaters too." But whats that dishonesty gonna get me? It's not gonna improve my life. So I'll own it, get hated for it, my children once they're old enough will hate me for it, but that's the price you pay. Actions have consequences and I just now learned not to hate myself for it every day. Living and learning and becoming a better person is not always easy. I get your rant, and I'm glad you have your head on straight, hope you keep it that way. I failed my family, but there's a lesson in there that I've been continuing to learn for the 2 years since I did it.

Detail-Realistic · 2024-12-16T03:40:33+00:00

There’s no justifiable excuse if someone has a moral that cheating is unacceptable. There’s reasons and complexities but they don’t weigh into morality. You are correct - loyal and monogamous people will raise any issues or desires they have or concerns if they arnt feeling loved and appreciated (or mistreated) enough to not stray and look for what they desire elsewhere. People who have integrity will catch themselves if being inappropriate and sort out their issues or end their relationship because they are no longer invested, and once healing they will seek to make new relationships/connections.

P.S I’ve cheated so I know how it works

AfghanistanIsTaliban · 2024-12-16T03:54:31+00:00

One of the few things that MR and feminists agree on. Except feminist start pearlclutching, bringing up irrelevant adultery stats, and making excuses when men are effectively being punished (on avg) for discovering that their partners cheated, that is, IF they signed that cursed legal document which allows such punishment to happen.

even if men have significantly higher adultery rates (which I find to be extremely shameful but not something to self-flagellate over), why should we keep giving adultery victims the short end of the stick?

Azrael-DeathLord · 2024-12-16T11:42:50+00:00

Don't be sorry for your rant mate you are right . And the worst part is they are trying to normalise cheating in society . They act as if it is the new normal .

Alternative-Dream-61 · 2024-12-16T06:02:32+00:00

Not sure why this warranted a post here. But yea. Cheating is shitty and there's no excuse.

Mysterious-Citron875 · 2024-12-16T15:16:59+00:00

Okay bro but how is this related to men's right?

SoyBoyH8ter · 2024-12-16T05:36:50+00:00

Every sane person hates cheaters and liars.

Dr3amerInTheDark · 2024-12-16T12:19:33+00:00

I think it’s men’s rights to naturally want variety.

BuckandShilo · 2024-12-17T02:16:16+00:00

Nobody is a virgin, and everybody plays a part. Some are more guilty than others, but nobody is a saint.

djdmaze · 2024-12-17T04:46:58+00:00

I’ve been on both sides so even though you hate them, I actually understand the reasons behind people cheating. It’s not quite as simple as you make it seem in your post. In regard to requesting acts from the other partner, you should acknowledge that a partner may have certain boundaries. In that case, the other partner should respect said boundaries and seek their desires elsewhere. Leaving is not always possible as separation and divorce can be lengthy processes. It’s all cost benefit analysis especially considering personal and financial circumstances. Currently, I no longer participate in committed romantic relationships so cheating cannot exist in my situations. This is what “cheaters” need to do instead of getting in committed relationships altogether.

lordDandas · 2024-12-16T17:08:53+00:00

That´s actually really funny because nor me or my girlfriend would care if we cheated one another. We´d just question each other´s mental health. I actually never understood why cheating makes people so mad. Like... it´s just sex, who cares.

Title	I hate cheaters
Author	deedatboss
Upvotes	109
Comments	41
Date	December 16, 2024 3:25 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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