Women getting confused or upset when men treat them like normal human beings. In other words that's equality.

Onemoretime536 · 2024-12-21T16:28:26+00:00

I think if a man is more cold with a woman it because he has past experience of him being nice being perceived as him coming on to her.

MindoverMuddle · 2024-12-21T17:12:25+00:00

In the first scenario, the expectation that the man should help is based on societal norms, whereas in the third scenario, the woman denies responsibility for monitoring someone else’s food, claiming it's not her duty.

This contrast reflects a double standard, as both involve a form of expectation or responsibility, yet the justifications for each differ. Its rooted in the broader debate about individual accountability versus societal obligations, especially when gender roles are considered.

They want the perks of traditional gender roles (like men helping or providing), but when the tables turn, it's all about "equality" and refusing responsibility. It’s cherry-picking the parts of traditionalism that suit them while conveniently ignoring the rest. This is selective gynocentrism.

Mysterious-Citron875 · 2024-12-21T14:00:09+00:00

When it comes to a woman's stuff, all men must get involved like good little slaves.

When it comes to a man's stuff, he is the sole responsible for it.

Disgusting hypocrites/misandrists.

Sick-of-you-tbh · 2024-12-21T15:33:51+00:00

These girls think that they’re oppressed just because not every person on earth gives them princess treatment.

Crushed_95 · 2024-12-21T17:02:49+00:00

So a truck driver was holding two lanes? Looks like he was trying to turn his big ass truck, but here comes your impatient "Got to get to work" ass! Guess what? He had to get to his destination also. You should have left your home sooner!

MarionberryPrimary50 · 2024-12-21T17:57:12+00:00

She just described everyday in a man's life, and began whining about it

SlyFoxWaifu2064 · 2024-12-21T18:31:30+00:00

It's ironic. Nowadays, it's so rare to find a woman who's actually nice, but god forbid a man be just as rude as they are.

Mister_3177 · 2024-12-21T13:56:49+00:00

Older women are devalued than younger women

just wait for me to come and then I’ll flip that entire table down

Clemicus · 2024-12-21T19:33:37+00:00

Im a dude and I guarantee you, men are not only shitty to just women. They just aren’t afraid to be shitty to woman cause won’t punch them in the face. Men are shitty to everyone. Men are adult children..basically the problem with this world 99% is because of men

I especially like this one — second screenshot, minimised comment.

Scar_let_333 · 2024-12-23T23:56:51+00:00

I find it interesting that the title says " In other words, thats equality." And ...Okay. Fine. But can we address something here? Without gender roles, remove them for a moment-- I feel like everyone men and women are so divided because we keep missing this golden rule; Treat others the way you want to be treated. And clearly in this post, this lady was being treated not the nicest, and thats not EQUALITY, thats just RUDE.

The definition for EQUALITY STATES: the state of being equal, especially in status, rights, and opportunities.

The title say "women upset or confused when men treat them like normal human beings" ---now PLEASE correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure what this woman was describing what was just rude ass people.

And they just so happened to all be men.

Yes she posted this in a feminist space, but please be honest you guys, if she were to try and put this out in just the ordinary public, that's not dedicated to be a safe space, how many people do y'all think (especially other men, BUT NOT ALL OF THEM) would respond negatively, and probably just call her a 'snowflake' and demand she just 'get over it' because of 'equality'.

Like I feel like everyone is reaching here with this post in particular because I PERSONALLY feel like when people (women) are asking for BASIC HUMAN DECENCY and RESPECT, it's like women are asking too much!

"Could you maybe not treat me this way, I don't appreciate it."

and the response is basically--

"Equal rights, deal with it."

Like...?

I don't want a man to feel OBLIGATED to open the door for me because I'm a woman and society expects him to be a 'gentlemen' I EXPECT HIM TO OPEN THE DOOR FOR ME BECAUSE I'M STRUGGLING AND NEED HELP WITH THE DOOR!!! I would hope anybody would just open the door for any individual who NEEDS HELP opening a damn door! The comments are like "Oh they're cherry picking what they want from traditionalism and equality" NO BRO... It's empathy and understanding that people are looking for. Kindness. Forget MAN or WOMAN-- Just be nice! And its not a "damned if you do damned if you don't" situation for if you're trying to be NICE. It's not hard to ask "Do you need help with that?" So if they answer YES, you can help and it wont seem like you're trying to flirt/come onto her, and if she answers NO then you can go about your day and ignore her! End of story who cares!

There are so many more issues and layers that need to be addressed as to why we're here, and why misandry is even a thing (a RESPONSE to MISOGYNY) and I do agree its a conversation and an issue that needs to be addressed with how quickly Misandry is growing to this violent point, because believe it or not it is.

The rhetoric is harmful on both ends and it's crazy.

Title	Women getting confused or upset when men treat them like normal human beings. In other words that's equality.
Author	vegetables-10000
Upvotes	113
Comments	18
Date	December 21, 2024 1:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
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