As a girl, how can I up my flirting game?

Charge36 · 2025-01-17T21:57:51+00:00

Just look into a guys eyes and get close to / touch him alot. Start with appropriate places like his arms or shoulders. If he likes you he will reciprocate and escalate.

Rroken86 · 2025-01-17T22:26:12+00:00

Also if anyone can explain what eye technique means/how to flirt with eyes?

I'm 41m and I only learned this recently. Someone I dated taught it to me.

Look at his eyes, a quick glance down to his lips, then back to his eyes.

Repeat until he gets the hint and kisses you.

Fate-in-haze · 2025-01-18T00:37:41+00:00

I still think a girls best bet is to master her physical touch escalation skills while at the same time just making regular conversation. Here is an ebook called the Dicarlo escalation Ladder, it's free to download and I think the physical escalation skills it teaches are just as useful for women to use on men as visa versa.

Onzalimey · 2025-01-18T04:52:13+00:00

You should max out your looks if you haven’t already. Gym. Hair. Makeup. Clothing. Style etc. it matters a lot more for women than it does for men. It’s like 70% for women I’d say and for men it’s like 30%. So it’s worth putting a LOT of effort into. Gym being the main one

luxlovely111 · 2025-01-18T15:03:45+00:00

I have to use seduction on a daily basis. Complimenting the man is a big one. A cute but soft smile while you hold their eye contact. If you want to to be a sexy look, think of like a dirty thought and practise a mysterious look. Practise this in the mirror. Soft hand touches across the table or just seconds touch his back when passing him (like walking away to excuse yourself to bathroom after a chat). Complimenting them as I said before/ is a really big move in a good way . Men don’t receive a lot of compliments

Exotic_Pop_765 · 2025-01-18T11:03:17+00:00

Do all the things you dont like guys doing to u. Ne creepy. Be overt about liking them. Sexually overt. Theres a reason we come off so creepy. We do what would have turned us on if a woman had done it to us.

Nudes, cheesy compliments, sexual statements, groping and general disregard for physical boundaries.. it would be better if you increased the intensity slowly. But if you feel totally uncalibrated and rusty just shoot your shot either way. Even if for whatever rare reason he tries to shoot you down he will masturbate to you multiple times for the next week or more..

If guys generally like you you can get away with the most desperate flirting possible.

If you are not so attractive try to give it in little amounts first and escalate slowly.

The one thing we dont like is watching you act like a dumbass in other ways. Like too loud or too ADD or too stupid.

In fewer words: lose your chill sexually, be chill socially.

Interesting-Kiwi-874 · 2025-01-18T16:07:52+00:00

If you see a guy you like in a bar and he's not coming over to approach you but just keeps looking at you then wink at him. Sounds dumb I've known it to work.

If you are into a guy you're talking to I would give 2 tips

1: Make some form of physical contact. This could be something as simple as touching his arm if he makes you laugh.

2: Give him challenges, for example ask him if he's a good dancer or what exciting things he's got going on in his life. Anything where you can judge him a little but keep it light hearted.

Title	As a girl, how can I up my flirting game?
Author	Aggravating_Lemon_32
Upvotes	4
Comments	23
Date	January 17, 2025 9:51 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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