I met her on the last day at uni. We met, I flirted she flirted and we drunk kissed, we never talked about it after. so 3 months holiday she made the effort, lots of texts and calls but I dont want to be her texting buddy so I didn't reply. and we love to far away for a meet.

We have been in touch lately. Talking and me putting in more effort. She sent me a text today, the first day of uni. 'hey you' 'going out tonight'. I was with my friends, so i cant meet her, but I didnt expect her to do this.

I asked her if she was free any other night, she said she doesnt know as her flatmates decide on the day if they want to go clubbing. But if they are not going out, see wants to go out with me. She also said she hopes we bump into each other at some point. She doesnt mind leaving her friends, as she did that the first time.

The problem is, I feel like second choice, she tells me the day, and I say yes or no. It should be the other day around.

My thoughts is becuase its only the first week at uni, just leave her and next week ask her out when.

In my country if you dont go out with you flatmates, tensions rise a bit in the flat, and you get left out of the group, so she not really in control of her timetable too.