At the gym it’s happened twice now a girl and me look at each other a lot for multiple days I sense she might be single and seeking attention or something but don’t approach her then weeks later she shows up with a boyfriend probably a guy that approached her at the gym

Standard-Metal3161 · 2025-01-19T01:30:46+00:00

You're overthinking

Dizzy-Bench2784 · 2025-01-19T02:12:40+00:00

They had the balls and skill to approach, u didnt

ipeekintothehole · 2025-01-19T09:41:39+00:00

The game is ruthless. Gotta shoot the shot as soon as it feels like it

Top_Transportation54 · 2025-01-19T02:17:31+00:00

Bro is cooked

jbsIV · 2025-01-19T02:28:56+00:00

Can confirm, this happened to me as well.

CandidInevitable757 · 2025-01-19T15:17:25+00:00

Or she had the bf the whole time and is looking to cheat

IncognitoBudz · 2025-01-19T18:18:59+00:00

Take the shot or somebody else will.

Hustlenomics 101

Next game you got to shoot to score.

Poolside_XO · 2025-01-20T03:15:18+00:00

I've had something similar. Sometimes I chicken out and another guy comes in to sweep, or I'm just not in the mood to be social, but the attraction is there. In those moments, I try to remind myself that I should approach, even when I'm not battling at 1000.

The biggest cheat code I've discovered is being upfront about what you're feeling atm.

"Hey, I'm having a rough day, but I saw you and wanted to introduce myself".

Most women will be delighted that you're being vulnerable from the jump, particularly if they've been giving you the eyes. It's a signal that you're not a game player.

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