I've got to a point where I am decent at online game. I can covert likes to matches at a rate that I am happy with (a couple dates a week, don't have time for more anyway). However, my conversion rate from first date to sex or relationship is not that good. Multiply times, I've had girls telling me they are not interested after the first date. Sometimes I get ghosted after first date. Sometimes they are not interested after the 4th date (already had sex multiple times at that point). I mean I know that I can't convert all first dates but I feel like the conversion rate should be higher.

I feel like most of my first go well. I usually escalate to some degree (holding hands, kiss, etc, rarely sex on the first date), but even after those date we kiss, I get ghosted or she is not interested.

I am a pretty confident guy (sometimes I am told this by my dates too). No Brad Pitt, but handsome. I work out. I have hobbies. Have male and female friends. Have good job. No car. I'm pretty modest, don't like to flash money other than a nice watch, etc.

How can I improve my first date game? Any resources?