I'm a 38 year old man in the US, making almost six figures, with a lot of savings in investments, planning on retiring overseas in the next 5 years.

After several failed relationships with promiscuous women in the US, I got onto the red pill, and specifically Legionofmen on youtube who preaches red pill mixed with overseas dating passport bro'ing. I was 36 at the time and met a filipina virgin 18 years old, online (big mistake i know).

Flew out for a month to go see her in the Philippines. Met her family, her father was a good man who cared for her and raised her "right." I bedded her with the promise that I would marry her in the future. Her mother was very upset and it took a lot for me to win the mother over, but eventually she came around. The girl is completely in my frame, does everything I ask inside and outside the bedroom. Never had a girl like this before.

Next year comes around and I go to visit her again but this time her parents are a little more comfortable with me. They want to see me again so I meet the family again for a second time. After that, they let me take her around vacationing around the country, again with the promise that I will marry her in the future. While we are traveling, I buy her a promise ring for about $250 US dollars. I come back to the US to work until I can go see her again the following year.

The girl is going to university, and her mother is an overseas worker making pretty decent money. Her mother pays for all her university, shelter, food, and other needs, about $150 a month. I give the girl an allowance of $50 a month to help make her life a little easier.

Girl is now 21 years old and she's always had a dream of winning in a pageant. At first I had issues with her walking on stage in a swimsuit but eventually I came around and gave her my support. At 21 years old she is getting "old" in the world of pageantry and achieving her dream of winning one crown (on the small village scale, not like miss universe or something huge like that).

She finds a coach who is supposed to help her in communication skills, so that she can answer pageantry questions that the judges ask her, and better her skills to win a pageant and get her "crown."

I thought the $50 I was sending her was covering everything for her extracurricular activities, but this coach was expensive and she didn't have enough money to pay him. Without my knowledge about two months ago, she sold the promise ring I had gotten her and used the money to pay her coach.

After asking her a few times why she wasn't wearing the ring, she finally confessed the truth of what she had done. She has been apologizing profusely and relentlessly admitting her fuck up.

Even after knowing about the red pill, I still fell for it and believed her to be the "unicorn." So please guys, tell me how fucking stupid I am. I guess maybe it turns out that all women, everywhere, they are all the same.

Some additional context:

* The girl had been begging me for an engagement ring but I told her we need more time together and we settled on buying her the promise ring with which she and her family were satisfied.

* She did not tell her father that she sold the ring, but she did tell her mother, and the mother was extremely upset.

* After confessing the truth to me, she said she was trying to save up her allowance to buy the ring back from the pawn shop but it became too expensive and out of her control in getting it back. She did ask me to buy it back for her but I refused and I told her I didn't want her to ever put that ring on her finger again even if she did manage to get it back somehow.

* I didn't break off the relationship but I did tell her I needed space for now.

* the pageantry coach seems to have taken her money and ran. He has not rendered any services to her yet, and it is two months later. She did contact him and he said he would make up all of the coaching sessions with her in February.