Being Sweet & Charming

AiSensualGoddess · 2025-02-24T11:38:42+00:00

Do what works for you. If you get girls being sweet and charming then that works if you don’t get laid then it doesn’t work. You don’t need someone else to tell you. Just do it yourself.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-02-24T13:33:01+00:00

It really doesn't matter if you are or jerk or narcissist or are charming or are sweet.

What will turn the girl on or off is how preselected she thinks you are regardless of the above.

If you remain neutral to beauty and behave as such through lowering your vocal tone and steadying your cadence, discipline your movements, refraining from letting your eyes light up or smiling too big... you appear to have options of higher quality and suddenly she don't get turned off by you being sweet and charming.

The issue is that these outcome independent behaviors come far easier and more naturally to assholes.

Good and nice guys usually lift their emotions and show outcome dependency while interacting which makes the girl feel like they aren't preselected, and that's a safety mechanism; unselection makes women feel physically unsafe.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-02-24T13:31:25+00:00

Being a simp and “nice boys” is on 1 extreme, if you found out that didn’t work, that doesn’t mean you have to swing hard to another extreme (assholes, bad boys, abusers, play hard to get). There’s always middle ground that’s where the game’s at.

Recurringg · 2025-02-24T14:29:26+00:00

Nah I think that's a fundamental misunderstanding of the matter. The only reason being an asshole works (at least when you're younger) is because assholes are honest, and stand firm on the conditions attached to their affection. So, just don't be a soft pushover. They need to charm you too. Authenticity is the important part.

Valravn6666 · 2025-02-24T19:40:54+00:00

You can be charming and sweet, but also be a confident man who displays high status behaviors. Redpilled men tell others to be assholes because being an asshole naturally displays emotional independence, assertiveness, and the type of energy that indicates to a woman that you want her but do not NEED her for anything. These powerful traits are naturally absent from nice guys, but embodied more frequently by the assholes. However, the implication is not that one must be an asshole to attract woman. Rather, understand that woman evaluate a man by his BEHAVIOR and how he makes her FEEL during the interaction. Nice guy behavior is boring and predictable. Bad boy behavior is dominant and dynamic. Change your behavior, not your personality.

Title	Being Sweet & Charming
Author	ImpeccablyIconic
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	February 24, 2025 8:56 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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