Just one question.

Background: Two children but the oldest is child is starting kindergarten in Aug but currently attends this private school that my wife likes. I have never been a proponent of private school and do not want to pay for it. The school is half an hour away from my house but my wife works from home, so she shuttles kids back and forth from school every day. That means she spends 2 hours in the car every school day. I work about 10 minutes away and in the opposite direction of the school.

My worry is even if I don't have to pay for private school is that my wife will eventually pay for both to go there instead of the local public elementary, which is a good school for the city we live in. Then I'll be stuck on my days getting them to school while I think she will agree to pick them up. Eventually she will likely move towards the school and I'll have to either move close to the school (or her house) and have a 30 minute commute into work or drive the 2 hours a day. Both options seem unreasonable to me.

Under collaborative divorce proceedings, what happens when parents cannot agree on a school plan? I feel like there's not a good outcome possible for me here.