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examples:

A man gets on a dating site and finds single mothers looking for "love". Is it possible she needs help? A man could possibly find a single woman with no kids on a dating site, go out on a date, and find out it was just a "foodie call". Was it help because she was hungry? Lastly, a man finds a woman on the dating site, they start talking which leads to nowhere, no dates, nothing happens, even ghosting is possible. Was it help because she needed attention?

Women prefer men who are taller, wealthier, stronger. Are these men more helpful than the ones who don't have these attributes?

When women ask for male friends. What can a man do that a woman cannot? Do they make some things easier, hence the helpfulness?

When men say they love their wives but "cheat" (<-another nuanced word with different meanings) on them. Why would the man say he loves her if he's "cheating"? Is it because it's more helpful/easier to keep her around in general than breaking up?

When women say "real man" as an adjective. Is she trying to define how helpful should a man be?

When men say they want a traditional woman. Is he trying to define the rules on how helpful she should be to him?

This is why men will only get loved if they are capable of providing solid support.

Women will always be able to provide sex so they are capable to be "loved".