Mentally I’m still struggling, im leaving her. i have talked to an attorney stbxw knows i want a divorce. Im waiting till she goes back to work as advised by my attorney (shes getting a small surgery) here’s my dilemma.. we will probably have to sell the house, and the kids, my daughter i have with her and step daughter will have to move. She is absolutely going to blame me, and tell them to ask me why they have to move… I feel horrible about that.