I’ve been observing this sub for the past few months, and I have to say—the quality is shitty. I’ve been observing this sub for the past few months, and I have to say—the quality is shitty. Except for a few people who make great comments, the posts are very, very low quality—just the same questions about one situation over and over.
I’ve been in this field since around 2010, before the social media era, when you actually had to ask people to meet downtown to network and help each other. Nowadays, I see a lot of you have zero inner game and never approach people.
This is how you all sound to me: "I can’t go out because I live in a small town. I’m short. I’m ugly. I’m blah blah blah."
Believe me, nobody cares about your excuses. This just shows that most of you lack confidence—so work on it instead of basing your self-worth on pity.
You can’t be a filmmaker without picking up a camera, going outside, and shooting bad footage first. You think Spielberg doubted himself into success?
I remember when people used to travel to another country just to meet up and learn from each other. The social media era has ruined the next generation, making them base their self-esteem on Instagram, OnlyFans, streamers, and rappers.
I only use dating apps when I’m traveling to another country—so don’t get your hopes up. Every person on my social media is either family or someone I met in real life.
The point of this rant? Go out and talk to strangers—not just girls—and make real connections. Build your inner confidence however you need to, but stop hiding behind excuses.
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