Not getting what i want

aeturnus95 · 2025-05-18T10:37:28+00:00

You need to find your life purpose man. You need to fix the fundamental issue here instead of chasing women my friend. Get yourself in order internally, then get your life in order externally. That is your main priority here

No-Might436 · 2025-05-18T10:26:04+00:00

1- The first thing is you have realization where you are wrong so kudos to that, now first i would say is go to the gym get fit, become what you want to attract if you are into fit women you need to get fit (no offense you are not Muscular alot of fit people thing they are fit no they are not)

2- If you haven't gone to university, I would highly recommend it. It will force you to meet new people and leave your old habits. You are 30; you are young and have your life ahead of you, so you can go back to school.

3- If you have money, then travel and explore the world. It will open your mind, and you will enjoy your life.

(I am going through depression as well. I have been unemployed for the past six months, so I understand the misery of being trapped. My friends live in other countries, and I didn't make friends in university because of COVID, so the gym is the place that helps me get out of the house.)

Just remember that only you can change your life, and it is never too late to start. Take small steps, and you will see big changes.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-05-18T15:41:46+00:00

This is a really terrible position to be in. I don't think pickup alone will be able to help you. You need to take massive action regarding basic self help, PUA is only relaistic for people who graduated from basic self help and put their life together.

I do have articles around basic self help. I have a list of 42 best habits and routines to implement into your life which is 4,000 words long. Another one you might find helpful is the depression and anxiety post I posted up a few weeks back.

For addiction maybe try a technique called "no mind." Everytime you have a craving, just stop everything you are doing and wait for the craving to pass. After like 10 ~ 30 minutes it will pass and you just conquered your addiction.

I recommend picking up some hobbies and experience more things. Travel solo with all the money you have. You will realize how much life the world has..

SuitOfWolves · 2025-05-18T17:41:29+00:00

wouldn't there be a better section on reddit to post this in?

Title	Not getting what i want
Author	Historical-Taro-7533
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	May 18, 2025 10:10 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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