How to learn flirting

epimpstyle · 2025-05-20T09:20:41+00:00

social cues - read about IOI and IOD signs but actually you can tell if someone doesn't want/like to talk with you and you can also recognize when the person you’re speaking with isn’t bothered by the conversation.

flirting - when you see IOI signs you need to escalate, which is "flirting", at this stage, you should be playful, tell jokes (funny stories), wink at her, lightly tap her on the arm if she says something funny, bump into her, playful blow kiss, hand games, push-pull, kino - things like that... Here are two examples shown by Phil Heitlinger VIDEO and VIDEO - these are routines/gambits - things you need to memorize , otherwise it will be difficult to escalate because you won’t be able to create these moments out of nothing.

ow3ntrillson · 2025-05-20T12:12:34+00:00

1: Don’t drown yourself in the plethora of dating tips and advice that’s out there. Try to find solid techniques that suit your personality so you can come across naturally.

2: Try to minimize the scope of your outlook on flirting. Seek to make conversation & connection with a woman playfully at first and ease into flirting.

3: in terms of social cues women say that they give men hints all the time but across the board (guys I know and myself) those hints were not picked up on. I myself learned to not lean too heavily into picking up social cues that a woman is interested. It’s not a man’s job to be a wizard and instantly notice that her subtle look was different than the one 0.25 seconds ago.

thebaddysamuel · 2025-05-20T11:15:15+00:00

Look up who is David

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-05-21T02:33:04+00:00

All flirting is is to induce a wide variety of emotions and intensity of those emotions via the law of state transference. Read my post on flirting and verbal techniques to get a good idea. Tjose two posts alone should give you a good map of the entire playground.

My IG have some nice visual explanations if you're more of a visual person and like graphs and stuff.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2025-05-21T17:05:09+00:00

I stand by this 100%. Open them however you want and then straight up ask them "Is it cool if I flirt with you?". I've been doing this and it's been going well with me.

The benefits of this are that you are clearly indicating your sexual/romantic interest in them. I know a ton of people who are freaking oblivious to flirting. Sometimes you literally need to spell it out for them. The fact that you yourself are asking how to flirt is proof that people are oblivious to flirting sometimes. Reading social cues, body language etc. Are great but isn't the most reliable.

Another benefit is asking for consent. Not only does this expressly state your interest, people who are interested in you will say yes or no, making the whole flirting process smoother and efficient. I can't tell you how many times in the past where I'm trying to flirt with a girl, only to find out they were just being nice, had a boyfriend, not interested, or otherwise. Obviously there are game techniques you can implement here to make it smoother but for the most part, wasting time/money for a dead-end or even worse someone who thinks you're a creep harassing them is just a no-brainer bad move.

For the record, all of the other comments here with their flirty techniques are valid too. I think the one I just mentioned above is how to get to the flirty process faster.

ConfidenceMastery · 2025-05-20T11:54:07+00:00

Watch Joey Tribbiani

Title	How to learn flirting
Author	Sunil547
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Date	May 20, 2025 6:17 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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