4 months ago, a girl In my industry (very small, public facing service) and I started flirting regularly over social media. We had gone back and forth sending comments on each others posts, and then one day, I shot my shot.

“Next time you’re in (my town) let me take you out She was in. “I’d love to”

She lives 6 hours away by car, a 2 hour flight. But I didn’t care. The next few weeks were filled with FaceTimes, and aggressive sexting. Beyond detailed, she was loving things I sent her way, barely taking more than a minute to reply to me. I was ready to fly her out to see me…

Then I had a massive interruption. Big family fiasco that forced me to move somewhere else. The interactions died down, I stopped hearing from her. I was convinced that I had done something, or maybe she wasn’t impressed with me physically etc etc.

This week, I reached out again, after over a month of no contact.

She takes a day to hit me back, then ghosts my follow up, when I asked to FaceTime soon.

I just wanna shoot for real. When this girl and I were talking, I got that gitty feeling getting a text from her. Something I haven’t felt in years.

Is it worth it to just put my cards on the table? (Ie, I would still love to give this a shot, make it low pressure etc)

Or is this just worth abandoning?