If you look at the current state of the situation of dating and relationships, you will observe that more males than 10 years ago have abandoned dating. For many reasons. We are required to invest more resources (money, attention, knowledge, conversations, fun, protection) just so that we can have sex or relationships. And it's not a good deal for many of us. It's understandable that some of us just don't want to play the game.

I'm a male with high libido, so my sexual urges are always there, but in the past few years I was able to control it. In my 20's it was harder, I know. Be strong young guys.

But still there's a bunch of guys out there enabling everything just so that they can get some p*ssy.

I have friends who will adapt to any situation just so that they can get it. They will tell some pro Palestinian girl how bad Israel is, and the next week they will defend Israel to another girl (this is a true example lol). I have friends who lied about who they voted to the girls they were dating. You can always play the game. Pretend to be a feminist, a woke, etc.

All of this will help you open their legs usually. Because most of them are woke. Not to mention those who get certain tattoos, piercings, fashion style and behaviors just so that they are more attractive to women. And unfortunately it works. Doing all these things make you more attractive for the average women.

I just can't do it. I refuse to do it. I don't think it's right. I can understand the guys to choose that path. They just have more fun. At least in the short term. You can't put the weight of the world on your shoulders, I know, but I still prefer to be myself, without being an assh*le.

There are also women that want you to chase them. And I'm not into chasing anyone anymore. I'm more into self respect lately and I don't care about chasing anyone. Peace of mind comes first. I'm not going to validate stupid behavior of any kind.

I recommend you guys also put your energies on growing yourself. Put your energy in learning something. Building something. Learn about income, taxes, investments, new jobs, saving money. Improve your health. Legal stuff if you want to create your own company.

If you find someone good, that's amazing. Stay there. If you don't, then don't derail yourself of your path of growth just for some crazy p*ssy. Society wants you to do that. To be the weak link, and give in and validate the status quo. Don't be abused, you deserve peace and love. Not any abusive storm.

They will attack you? yeah, they will call you incel, misogynist, bigot, and other things. Stay on your path, growing yourself into someone better. They will collapse and face the consequences of their own actions later. And you will harvest later too.