Long story short, Erasmus for 6 months, she did openly mention that she was looking for a relationship, but then saw one guy heavily making out in front of her (who she thought was taking her seriously) and laughed at her for thinking there will be anything serious during Erasmus. For some time she said she had the same approach and had sex with only people she would call ‘friends’ (of course this is a concern, it’s something I’m wondering whether I should ask directly for a number or not, but I’d assume body count is below 10).

She seems nice, feminine, easy to talk to and actually holds interesting and intelligent conversations, not a feminist, talks things through, no bullshit arguments at this stage and seems to care about me, but the desire to know is something that annoys me.

She doesn’t have the ‘hoe stare’, as in, her eyes don’t look dead or like I’m looking into a void, which I’ve seen with other women that evidently got far too much ‘experience’.

Any thoughts or advice? I’ve been seeing her for two months nearly.