I'm happily in a relationship, but I felt the need to give some advice to a lot of the young men in this sub. This has been said 1000 times here, but how you present yourself in public will be the main determining factor to your night.

I went out Saturday night to a small club in the city with my girl and a couple of her girlfriends. I decided to dress up a bit. Well fitting slacks, nice shoes, a clean white button down, trimmed beard, a good watch. I rolled up the sleeves and unbuttoned the top two to show a little chest hair and Ill tell you ALL women's eyes were on me. My spouse was also swooning.

I'm conventionally attractive, but when I wear my day to day clothes I may get a few lingering stares but nothing like when I dress up a bit. Women reach out to grab my arms as I walk by, try to dance on me, and I had several very attractive women walk up and start trying to chat me up. I had to break a few hearts, but it was a nice confidence boost.

My point of all this is to say, you could have a golden personality, but if you don't look the part, then you will more than likely be ignored.